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CocoRockStar
January 30th, 2010, 01:30 PM
Talk about what our bighearted playboy wants in a girl ;)

dejavu711
January 30th, 2010, 01:33 PM
FINALLY! WTLIAG has made it to a 3rd version! I am so proud :cry:

Amdee
January 30th, 2010, 01:42 PM
Talk about what our bighearted playboy wants in a girl ;)


Aw, so nicely said of Tom :grin:

What I was about to say before was that I have to agree with the impression that Tom might have (had) someone during the summer/autumn. I was almost sure about it, when they had this one of the first interviews where he said that he would like to fall in love. I was so sure about it back then, but nothing came up eventually.... *shrug*

CocoRockStar
January 30th, 2010, 01:48 PM
Aw, so nicely said of Tom :grin:

What I was about to say before was that I have to agree with the impression that Tom might have (had) someone during the summer/autumn. I was almost sure about it, when they had this one of the first interviews where he said that he would like to fall in love. I was so sure about it back then, but nothing came up eventually.... *shrug*

Tom is nothing but a teddy bear ;)

And if he WAS dating someone or liked someone, then I wonder why he only mentioned the love thing once.

Metro-Retro!
January 30th, 2010, 01:59 PM
Wow. LOL I was just reading the second one a few minutes ago... D:

Haha ;)

Zoë[kaulitz]?
January 30th, 2010, 02:04 PM
You think he could be dating a crew member or someone close to the boys? (if he is/was dating someone)

Sim_1
January 30th, 2010, 03:16 PM
?;635418']You think he could be dating a crew member or someone close to the boys? (if he is/was dating someone)
Nah, thats Bill's job *cough* Natalie *cough*

ray_ray2384
January 30th, 2010, 03:37 PM
If he did have a relationship, it could have been with anyone; staff, close friend, industry girl, even a fan. My opinion is that Tom is much more pratical/realistic about love/relationships/women/sex than his brother Bill. While he may not seem gung ho about finding the love of his life at this point in his life. He's definitely more open to it than ever before. Tom has matured.

One more thing, Tom never said that he'd tell the media if he has a girlfriend. He doesn't share any details about the hook-ups he does have. So, I don't imagine him talking about his romantic relationships.

dejavu711
January 30th, 2010, 03:39 PM
Would Tom date a girl that was a guitarist too? Lol. That would be cool.

Zoë[kaulitz]?
January 30th, 2010, 03:58 PM
I think he would, as long as he liked her. I think Tom said something about he wants thing in common w/ his girl..? There's an interest they both would share!

wake.up.call.004
January 30th, 2010, 04:23 PM
awh, WDTLIG thread is growing up!

Very slowly, but still. :]]]


I think it would be cute if he dated a girl who played the guitar.
I hope she's better than him.
I want to see him get all frustrated.
xDDD

TH Rox My Sox
January 30th, 2010, 05:00 PM
Wow, can't believe we finally made it to vol.3 lol

^^Yeah, that would be cool if he dated a girl who was better than him at guitar.

Orianthi is a beast at guitar. She could prolly school Tom.lol

Amhazi
January 30th, 2010, 05:22 PM
v.3? finally lol

and I just have this feeling that Tom was previously or is involved with someone as of recent

His behavorial change is quite evident. Maybe time perpetuated the shift in his behavior or (like everyone else has stated) a relationship

I definitely think it's the latter

experiences can change a person so maybe it wasn't a relationship that did that but something took place

Mikoto
January 30th, 2010, 06:26 PM
So you guys think he's in a relationship right now? I guess he did say he wouldn't exactly tell us all if he was... but then, if they're in the Maldives (are they still there?) where would she (he :lol:) be at the moment? Chilling at home?

Well, anywho; Do you think Tom would date a girl who hates TH and has no interest in ever going to their concerts/thinks it's a bit stupid, but loves Tom completely?

Ms.DangerousThing
January 30th, 2010, 06:27 PM
awh, WDTLIG thread is growing up!

Very slowly, but still. :]]]


I think it would be cute if he dated a girl who played the guitar.
I hope she's better than him.
I want to see him get all frustrated.
xDDD

ha :laugh: how did u come up this that idea about a girl playing a guitar better then tom!? i been playing guitar like seven years now myself. Yay go me. ^_^

dejavu711
January 30th, 2010, 06:39 PM
Wow, can't believe we finally made it to vol.3 lol

^^Yeah, that would be cool if he dated a girl who was better than him at guitar.

Orianthi is a beast at guitar. She could prolly school Tom.lol

YES! I think Tom would get kinda mad if she kept on creaming him at it xD

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 30th, 2010, 06:52 PM
So you guys think he's in a relationship right now? I guess he did say he wouldn't exactly tell us all if he was... but then, if they're in the Maldives (are they still there?) where would she (he :lol:) be at the moment? Chilling at home?

Well, anywho; Do you think Tom would date a girl who hates TH and has no interest in ever going to their concerts/thinks it's a bit stupid, but loves Tom completely?


OMG, WTLIAG is in the toddlers stages. :3 I remember lurking here when it first started. XD

I can see girl going out with a girl who likes the same music as him, i.e, rap and such, but who appreciates rock music too. I don't see her being TH's number one fan, but I think Tom would be hurt if the girl couldn't appreciate or like the bands music they make, but I think Tom could oversee that if she's totally dedicated to him, he'd prefer that than her being dedicated to the music.

Zoë[kaulitz]?
January 30th, 2010, 07:00 PM
So you guys think he's in a relationship right now? I guess he did say he wouldn't exactly tell us all if he was... but then, if they're in the Maldives (are they still there?) where would she (he :lol:) be at the moment? Chilling at home?

Well, anywho; Do you think Tom would date a girl who hates TH and has no interest in ever going to their concerts/thinks it's a bit stupid, but loves Tom completely?

I can't really see that! I remember him saying a couple of years back he wanted his girl to like Tokio Hotel and their music, but maybe he feeld differently now..?

But I think the MOST important thing is that she likes Tom for who he is and not because he's a famous rock star.

ray_ray2384
January 30th, 2010, 07:47 PM
If a girl can't support Tom's music/can't offer him support for what he does. I don't think any claim of love she has for him will be taken seriously.

Just as Bill has said that he needs a girl who will support what he does with the band. I think Tom wants the same as well. Most men want their wives/gf's to be their number one fan. When they face doubt from others, they will often go to their women and seek support/guidance. If he doesn't get it from her. Where will he get it from?

mollie
January 30th, 2010, 07:53 PM
How many ppl actually HATES a band? It's very highschool to me. She can just not be into it, but he likes different styles so there's prolly something she likes as well.

Sim_1
January 30th, 2010, 09:06 PM
I don't kno if this has been asked b4 (probly has):

If Tom and Bill both really really liked the same girl, do u think Tom would sacrifice himself for the sake of his brother and his 'true love' fantasy?
Or do u think he will go up against his bro for her affection?

Heillie
January 30th, 2010, 10:53 PM
I think in a interview before he have said that he want connection with the girl that he would met like Bill when he says that he want ""love a first sigh""

but in real life i don't think he have the image of the playboy i have talk with one fans and she said that he is more curious and didn't really have the image that he"s have in the interview . I don"t really think Tom have said just for fun that he want to fall in love and in another interview last year when Bill was teasing him about love he said that he wanted and didn't really know what it is to find the right person like Georg did but i don't remember where they was lol...
and he have said that he want to have fun and not settle down now :)

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 12:19 AM
I think of course they would want someone to support their band because it is a part of them. However, maybe if the girl was TOO into the band it might be a little unattractive to them and cause some trust issues.

Something I've noticed about Bill and Tom, they always talk about what their girl would do for them, or what they would want her to act/look like...I've never heard them mention what THEY can bring to a relationship. It takes two, ya know? I would love someone to ask them that question and see what their answers would be. What would they bring to a relationship, what would they have to offer someone, would they be there for someone in times of need, would they hold her hair back if she were throwing up, would they meet her family, would they stay with her in a hospital if she were ill or someone in her family was ill, would they like her just as much in sweatpants and a tshirt and no makeup? I think things like this are very important.

I know it's kind of weird, but when I look at potential relationships, I kind of compare the person to how parents treat their children..took care of when sick, offered unconditional love even when hateful and moody, support and believes in their children, always saw the best in them, etc.

Oh yeah, and let me be a downer here yet once again, as I said earlier, I'm cynical as ****, that's just my nature, sorry. But Bill's true love and love at first sight thing strikes me as silly. Maybe he will find that one day, I hope so, but personally I don't believe in it.

ray_ray2384
January 31st, 2010, 12:46 AM
I honestly believe that Tom will give his all to the woman he chooses to love. Yes, he has this playboy image that seems to confuse people. But, if you look past that persona and observe the way Tom loves and cares for his brother. You'll see a very caring, thoughtful, loving young man. It's a complete contrast to the image we often see portrayed in interviews. I'm sure the same affection/love Tom has for Bill and other important people in his life will transfer into a loving relationship with the woman of his choice. He tries to act like a badass. But, in reality, he seems to be a real sweetheart.

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 01:29 AM
I think of course they would want someone to support their band because it is a part of them. However, maybe if the girl was TOO into the band it might be a little unattractive to them and cause some trust issues.

Something I've noticed about Bill and Tom, they always talk about what their girl would do for them, or what they would want her to act/look like...I've never heard them mention what THEY can bring to a relationship. It takes two, ya know? I would love someone to ask them that question and see what their answers would be. What would they bring to a relationship, what would they have to offer someone, would they be there for someone in times of need, would they hold her hair back if she were throwing up, would they meet her family, would they stay with her in a hospital if she were ill or someone in her family was ill, would they like her just as much in sweatpants and a tshirt and no makeup? I think things like this are very important.

I know it's kind of weird, but when I look at potential relationships, I kind of compare the person to how parents treat their children..took care of when sick, offered unconditional love even when hateful and moody, support and believes in their children, always saw the best in them, etc.

Oh yeah, and let me be a downer here yet once again, as I said earlier, I'm cynical as ****, that's just my nature, sorry. But Bill's true love and love at first sight thing strikes me as silly. Maybe he will find that one day, I hope so, but personally I don't believe in it.



That's a really good point actually. No one ever asks them what they could bring to a relationship, girls just want to know what kind of girls they like so that they can try to be that person and "make" the boys fall in love with them. Yes Bill says his little romantic things sometimes, but he has to know that a relationship isn't just sunshine and lollipops all the time.

bella_10
January 31st, 2010, 01:38 AM
ii think that it would be an AMAZiiNG question to ask them, just because thats not a question thats asked very often, if not ever and it takes people off guard when being asked such a question because not many ppl actually take the time to think about that. and when taken off guard (especially famous ppl) 90% of the time your facial expressions give you away while you answer wat is being asked. i guess what i'm really curious about is the way they react and the way they answer it. but most of all WHO answers it, because in touchy subjects like that they all sort of let bill answer because of how helplessly romantic he is.

ray_ray2384
January 31st, 2010, 02:05 AM
If you fast forward to 6:15, Kenza asks Tom what a girl would have to do to impress him. He gives his typical playboy-type response. But, right after his answer, she switches it around and asks Tom what he would do to impress a girl. If you look at his facial expression while he is trying to come up with an answer. You can tell he was caught off-guard and wasn't sure what kind of response he should give. Georg came to the rescue and said a typical Tom answer: he would sleep with the girl.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrcBhvKZKCU

So, I think that even if a fan or a reporter/journalist were to ask the boys, mainly Bill and Tom, what sort of qualities would make them good boyfriends, how they would contribute in a relationship, or how they can manage to have a girlfriend while traveling all over the world. We might not receive the kind of answer we want to hear. Bill/Tom have avoided answering touchy questions by beating around the bush or coming up with some joke to switch the attention away from them.

Metro-Retro!
January 31st, 2010, 03:08 AM
I hadn't even seen that interview till now. LOL

Tom... sex, sex, sex...

What if he ends up like Hugh Hefner?

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 03:15 AM
I hadn't even seen that interview till now. LOL

Tom... sex, sex, sex...

What if he ends up like Hugh Hefner?

I seriously doubt that. He's not that big of a pimp lmao

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 06:27 AM
Tom will never end up being Hugh Heffner, I'm ready to quarantee that :grin:

But that's a very good question what would make them to be a good bf and what could they give to a relatonship. It's one of the things nobody normally asks them. I think this shows the routine and rehealsal they (have to) keep in media. When suddenly that kind of question is asked, they get confused, brecause they don't have an answer. Is it because they don't have a routine answer and they actually have to think what they can say about it (remember that every single word they say, is taken literally and remembered and repeated over and over in this fandom) or is it because they never think about it? I think it's both.

Just like Ray said, I don't think the real answer to thst question can never be reached with regular interviews. It needs a lot more and - to be honest - a conversation outside the media.

(Edit: I forgot to say how cute smile Tom always has)

KaitMazing94
January 31st, 2010, 06:35 AM
I hadn't even seen that interview till now. LOL

Tom... sex, sex, sex...

What if he ends up like Hugh Hefner?
I'd love to see Tom fall inlove with a girl who had like a purity ring or something. Not the whole 'until marriage' thing but know that she really cared about it and wouldn't give it up to him straight away. I wonder if he would look past the whole sex, sex ,sex thing and just love to hang out with her.

THen of course he would eventually get the gift and all is swell!

jks.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 11:26 AM
I've dealt with guys who only want sex, and once they get what they want, they're outta there. Of course, with me, it never happened so they split when they find out they're not getting laid. What is so great about sex anyway??

And I love in interviews with pretty women, Tom is totally flirting. Like that Kenza interview, he's totally eyeing her during the whole thing LOL. She actually seems kinda nervous. I laughed when they told her they hated being asked if they are single, a few minutes later she asked that, and you could see them all kind of roll their eyes haha. His answer to that question was goofy and you are right, he seemed completely baffled..I guess he isn't used to having to impress girls.

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 31st, 2010, 12:28 PM
I've dealt with guys who only want sex, and once they get what they want, they're outta there. Of course, with me, it never happened so they split when they find out they're not getting laid. What is so great about sex anyway??

And I love in interviews with pretty women, Tom is totally flirting. Like that Kenza interview, he's totally eyeing her during the whole thing LOL. She actually seems kinda nervous. I laughed when they told her they hated being asked if they are single, a few minutes later she asked that, and you could see them all kind of roll their eyes haha. His answer to that question was goofy and you are right, he seemed completely baffled..I guess he isn't used to having to impress girls.

Yeah, I think he's under the assumption that the whole Tokio Hotel fandom are at his beck and call, so he's never really had to impress, just saying 'Hey, I'm Tom Kaulitz' would be enough for most girls.

I want him to totally get owned by a girl when he's trying it on with her to be very honest. XD

Zoë[kaulitz]?
January 31st, 2010, 12:50 PM
]Krissie!;636261']Yeah, I think he's under the assumption that the whole Tokio Hotel fandom are at his beck and call, so he's never really had to impress, just saying 'Hey, I'm Tom Kaulitz' would be enough for most girls.

I want him to totally get owned by a girl when he's trying it on with her to be very honest. XD

When having sex or in a relationship? sorry just got kinda confused. XD

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 31st, 2010, 01:05 PM
?;636288']
When having sex or in a relationship? sorry just got kinda confused. XD
D: You've made me think! XD

Nah, I was thinking more of a relationship thing, but now you got me thinking, I would want Tom to get rejected by someone sex-wise... although he probably has before, so I don't really see how that would knock him... not every girl he hits on would be up for it, would they? :/

ray_ray2384
January 31st, 2010, 01:13 PM
I've dealt with guys who only want sex, and once they get what they want, they're outta there. Of course, with me, it never happened so they split when they find out they're not getting laid. What is so great about sex anyway??

And I love in interviews with pretty women, Tom is totally flirting. Like that Kenza interview, he's totally eyeing her during the whole thing LOL. She actually seems kinda nervous. I laughed when they told her they hated being asked if they are single, a few minutes later she asked that, and you could see them all kind of roll their eyes haha. His answer to that question was goofy and you are right, he seemed completely baffled..I guess he isn't used to having to impress girls.

I think it's more of that fact that he was never asked that question before. So, he was a bit stunned. He didn't have a ready-made answer to give and wasn't so sure what he should say.

You know, Tom is an attractive man. Before TH reached fame, he did have girlfriends, he was cheated on, probably cheated on a girlfriend himself. So, I think even now as a celeb Tom always has women wanting to be with not only because he's famous but he's also very good-looking. Plus, Tom says he's like a hunter/gatherer when it comes to finding women he likes. Yes, he's used to being approached by girls who want him. But, he'd rather do the chase. I have a feeling that Tom doesn't use the, "Hey, I'm the sex guitar from Tokio Hotel. Want to sleep with me?' line to get in girls' pants! :lol: Nah....he's more smooth than that!

Tom did say in an old interview that the most romantic thing he did for a girl was wait for sex. Can he meet the girl of his dreams who's a bit conservative and wants to wait? Yes! Will he do it? I think so. But, doesn't mean he won't try to seduce her along the way! :lol: Honestly, I don't think Tom will ever want to wait for marriage to have sex with a girl.

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 31st, 2010, 01:40 PM
I think it's more of that fact that he was never asked that question before. So, he was a bit stunned. He didn't have a ready-made answer to give and wasn't so sure what he should say.

You know, Tom is an attractive man. Before TH reached fame, he did have girlfriends, he was cheated on, probably cheated on a girlfriend himself. So, I think even now as a celeb Tom always has women wanting to be with not only because he's famous but he's also very good-looking. Plus, Tom says he's like a hunter/gatherer when it comes to finding women he likes. Yes, he's used to being approached by girls who want him. But, he'd rather do the chase. I have a feeling that Tom doesn't use the, "Hey, I'm the sex guitar from Tokio Hotel. Want to sleep with me?' line to get in girls' pants! :lol: Nah....he's more smooth than that!

Tom did say in an old interview that the most romantic thing he did for a girl was wait for sex. Can he meet the girl of his dreams who's a bit conservative and wants to wait? Yes! Will he do it? I think so. But, doesn't mean he won't try to seduce her along the way! :lol: Honestly, I don't think Tom will ever want to wait for marriage to have sex with a girl.
Oh, what interveiw is that? :/
Yeah, I don't think he'd do the whole 'no sex before marriage' thing, but I reckon he would wait for a girl to be ready.


Okay, looks wise, what about Pixie Lott? She's a British singer, and I think she'd be Tom's type physically. :]
http://www.ilikemusic.co.uk/images/article_images/full/pixie_lott_f.jpg

emeXu
January 31st, 2010, 01:42 PM
yeah, that girl'd be cool for Tom. u.u

i vote yes. :'D

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 31st, 2010, 01:51 PM
YAY!
If you google her, there's loads of images that basically explain why Tom would like her... the girl practically lives in hotpants! XD

Zoë[kaulitz]?
January 31st, 2010, 01:53 PM
Yeah,I like Pixie. She has this sensual vibe she gives off in her pictures. She's really pretty, too, but she looks like the typical blonde. =/

ray_ray2384
January 31st, 2010, 01:57 PM
]Krissie!;636342']Oh, what interveiw is that? :/
Yeah, I don't think he'd do the whole 'no sex before marriage' thing, but I reckon he would wait for a girl to be ready.


Okay, looks wise, what about Pixie Lott? She's a British singer, and I think she'd be Tom's type physically. :]
http://www.ilikemusic.co.uk/images/article_images/full/pixie_lott_f.jpg

Here's the video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PrcBhvKZKCU

Pixie Lott is very cute. I can see the whole band falling for her! :lol:

musicinmysoul
January 31st, 2010, 03:38 PM
I honestly believe that Tom will give his all to the woman he chooses to love. Yes, he has this playboy image that seems to confuse people. But, if you look past that persona and observe the way Tom loves and cares for his brother. You'll see a very caring, thoughtful, loving young man. It's a complete contrast to the image we often see portrayed in interviews. I'm sure the same affection/love Tom has for Bill and other important people in his life will transfer into a loving relationship with the woman of his choice. He tries to act like a badass. But, in reality, he seems to be a real sweetheart.


I agree. I don´t think you can have that love for another person (his brother) and be totally different in a relationship with a girl. He has the playboy image and seems cool and confident, but underneath it all he seems like a sweetheart. And being that close, him and Bill, even if they are very different in some ways, I don´t think they could be that different when it comes to how they treat the girl they love.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 04:26 PM
I guess I'll just agree to disagree with the majority here, I still say while Tom might have a good heart and be a good person inside, he seems like a "what you see is what you get" type of person. I am willing to believe his sex talk and pervertedness is a part of the real him, not just an image. Why would someone want to portray that type of image, it's actually pretty disgusting, lol. If that's who he is though for real, at least he owns it and stays true to himself.

I think Tom likes the girly-girl hot women types, who wear makeup and fix their hair and dress nice all the time. I can see Bill for some reason with a girl (or guy) that is more laid back and jeans and t-shirts type, which is weird I think that bc Bill is always dressed up, but I tend to think he wouldn't want a girl or guy prettier than himself, LOL.

As for Gustav and Georg, they seem like really sweet guys and I think they would accept a girl just the way she is.

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 04:59 PM
And I don't think that sexy talk or pervyness (which is IMO used in a wrong context 95% of time... like in Tom's case: He is definitely way more vanilla than Bill) are not necessary excluding respectful behavior. I don't know, I guess I'm just weird, but I don't see anything bad in sex itself. I think a person can be sexually active and/or turn the relationship physical pretty quickly without that it automatically means that the person is disrespectful or not interested of the partner or the relationship is automatically doomed. At least not from my personal experience. Also in a way that waiting would have saved or quaranteed anything in emotional level.

I agre that he likes very feminine girls, but for a real relationship he'd end up with pretty girl next door instead of "cheap" or super sl*tty.

And I can also be wrong in everything, but (luckily?) I'm not the person to find out the real Tom Kaulitz as a boyfriend :laugh:

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
January 31st, 2010, 05:17 PM
To be honest, I don't think Tom is actually, like, all innocent and all like some people say he is, I totally agree with the majority that he is more 'pervy', if you know what I mean? I know people who act like Tom all the time, and I don't find it disrespectful, because it's the way they act. And I personally don't see anything wrong with him openly talking about sex and the amount of times, it's ten times better than him naming every girl he's had, which IMHO is very respectful... so yeah, his future girl would have to be used to him being what most people classify as a 'perv'.

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 05:31 PM
I think that all the sex talk definitely is part of Tom's personality, but it just gets exaggerated in interviews and such. You can talk about sex and be perverted without going out and doing it all the time. I'm sure that with girls it's not ALL about sex to him. I mean, he has to sort of like her too, and she would have to be chill and not CFFy if she wanted to be with him for even one night.

And yes feminine girly girls for him. I don't see him walking out of the house with a girl wearing sweats and with her hair in a pony tail! No, Tom's girl would have to look good every time she stepped out.

Sim_1
January 31st, 2010, 05:49 PM
Mayb all his sex talk is just 1 of his ways of handling with uncomfortable situations.
He refrains from talking about personal opinions about women by cracking a generalised sex joke. That way he doesnt have to give away his inner thoughts/feelings (and maybe insecurities), gains respect as the 'comedian' of the group and his confidence is restored.

tokiohotelcrazy08
January 31st, 2010, 07:19 PM
Mayb all his sex talk is just 1 of his ways of handling with uncomfortable situations.
He refrains from talking about personal opinions about women by cracking a generalised sex joke. That way he doesnt have to give away his inner thoughts/feelings (and maybe insecurities), gains respect as the 'comedian' of the group and his confidence is restored.

Hmm. You make a good point.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 07:20 PM
Well, I find it disrespectful when guys make crude comments about women like that. I guess I am old fashioned but who really wants to hear that some guy wants a girl to impress him by sleeping with him? Maybe if he said it one time that would be a joke and would be funny, but since that seems to be the only thing he cares about in the opposite sex because he talks about it and makes comments on it so much, it gets old and even offensive. Like I said, if that's the real him (which I am guessing it is) at least he is honest about it and like he said, he doesn't give girls false hope or anything.

But I really just don't get the big fascination with sex. What is so great about it? How can some people meet randomly and hook up like that? (If that's your thing go for it no offense meant) but sex to me is something so very personal and private, it's a huge deal. Some people act like it's nothing..I can't wrap my head around that. There are all kinds of consequences to sex...STDs, pregnancies..etc., it seems such a huge risk to take in order to roll around in the hay for a couple of hours. Sex to me seems gross and messy and embarrassing mostly, but maybe I am weird because I find kissing pretty awkward and gross.

And another thing, it takes a lot before I let someone in. I have a hard time with even holding hands and hugging, you don't get in my personal space unless I want you there and you have to earn it. I just can't understand how some people let someone else be so intimate with them, specially if it's someone you only met once and have a one night stand with.

Do the girls Tom sleeps with have to sign a contract or something? It seems if not, they'd all be gossiping about it.

idontknow
January 31st, 2010, 07:25 PM
There are all kinds of consequences to sex...STDs, pregnancies..etc., it seems such a huge risk to take in order to roll around in the hay for a couple of hours.


try like minutes not hours haha
and i totally agree with you.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 07:27 PM
I can tell you this much, when I have sex it better last more than minutes. I am talking I want lots of foreplay and excitement, not just a quick in and out and it's over! :D

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 07:54 PM
I know mods are soon going to poke us with their mod-stick for talking about sex, but I'll take mu chances here... :laugh:

I personally have a very strong libido, if that's the word the use here, but never in my I've had to have sex to get my needs filled. I have two working hands, so it has always been about a want to be close to thart particular person and feel him also physically. It's hard for me to see, why sex is seen so "sacrifying" thing if it's not happened after months or years of waiting. I agree that just jumping from bed to another without actually thinking own motives may be a risky business and gives probably nothing, but I think sex in itself can be nice and beautiful experience after knowing just a short time too. It's all about the mutual respect and that both wants to have the experience because they like each other. I don't think having a good sex needs necessary romantic LOVE to happen, but sex can be good and connection with other person warm and respectful even if there would be no thoughts of long lasting relationship or a long shared background. There can be other kind of connection too. And who knows, what will happen eventually? It is totally possible that a relationship starting with sex can last if there is a chemistry.

Personally I don't see Tom's "sleep with that girl"-comment offending, but those make me always laugh, because I guess I'm just blind, but that what I see there: joking. *shrug*

Hmm.. Better take this back to Tom... I just try to find out, how this can be connected to him :laugh:

P.s. Remember to use condom, okay? Even Tom said he has a suitcase just for the condoms!:grin:

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 07:57 PM
*pokes* nice timing, eh? lol..
lets just get this back on topic before it gets out of hand, please..

and i tend to think tom is partially joking..

dejavu711
January 31st, 2010, 08:20 PM
Yeah...I agree with mod. U can always go to explicit forum and have ur wonderful lil sex talks :] LOL

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 08:25 PM
Personally I don't see Tom's "sleep with that girl"-comment offending, but those make me always laugh, because I guess I'm just blind, but that what I see there: joking. *shrug*


You're not blind at all, I agree with you! I think Tom has that sense of humor that a lot of people don't understand. I don't really take him seriously with all his sex/groupie talk. I tend not to take people seriously who laugh, talk, and giggle like little children when they talk about a subject.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 08:26 PM
I think the boys have mentioned they hate "dating" like going out on dates. So I wonder what Tom would do instead of taking a girl out? Didn't he take Chantelle or something out though, wasn't there photos of them in a car on a date and in a bar? All sex talk aside for this, what would he do? Or would he even know what to do?? lol

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 08:29 PM
I don't think he knows much about dating lol. He'd probably stick to dinner or something.

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 08:31 PM
You're not blind at all, I agree with you! I think Tom has that sense of humor that a lot of people don't understand. I don't really take him seriously with all his sex/groupie talk. I tend not to take people seriously who laugh, talk, and giggle like little children when they talk about a subject.

exactly!
he looks away or down and cant keep a straight face.. i can't take everything he says as fact if he can't even look up when saying it lol..

dating.. hmm.. i could see tom as a 'going to the movies' kind of guy.. or watching them at home..

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 08:33 PM
The boys don't hate dating, not that I have ever once heard, they just don't have time for it. So they usually don't bother.

The whole Chantelle thing was such a head shakable affair. They were photoged in a hotel bar in LA, and then there was their 'date' in Germany where they went to a well know pap hang out restaurant and loafed in Tom's car for awhile in the hotel parking lot before he walked her to the door and bailed.

And, awww, I can totally see Tom doing a movie date. <333

Pixle3000
January 31st, 2010, 08:35 PM
I think the boys have mentioned they hate "dating" like going out on dates. So I wonder what Tom would do instead of taking a girl out? Didn't he take Chantelle or something out though, wasn't there photos of them in a car on a date and in a bar? All sex talk aside for this, what would he do? Or would he even know what to do?? lol

But why would they not like dates...I mean they can be anything--from going to an amusement park, watching t.v together...

Who doesn't like that? I would love to go on dates and just hang out...

BUt I think it may be hard to do that only b/c they're famous and stuff...but wouldn't Georg take his girl somewhere---or do they stay in and he cooks for her?

That sucks if they don't like going anywhere...*pouts*

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 08:37 PM
The boys don't hate dating, not that I have ever once heard, they just don't have time for it. So they usually don't bother.

The whole Chantelle thing was such a head shakable affair. They were photoged in a hotel bar in LA, and then there was their 'date' in Germany where they went to a well know pap hang out restaurant and loafed in Tom's car for awhile in the hotel parking lot before he walked her to the door and bailed.

And, awww, I can totally see Tom doing a movie date. <333

i would hope so with all those movie recommendations and all.. lol..

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 08:42 PM
I dunno but I really did see that in an interview..can't remember which one..but they said they hate doing the date thing.

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 08:43 PM
SOMEONE should go with him cause it's sad to make him go alone, and I'm sure that Bill doesn't want to have to see every single one of Tom's movie recs (I know that I don't). He could buy her Jujyfruits!

dejavu711
January 31st, 2010, 08:44 PM
Jujyfruits get stuck in your teeth to much. Happens to me all the time. He better buy her the best candy of all time, M&Ms!!!! lol

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 08:46 PM
lemonheads are the best movie candy!

and yes, he needs someone to watch all those movies..
i hope the poor girl survives that marathon..

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 08:53 PM
No way, not M&M's. The twins don't really like chocolate, so he wouldn't want to set himself up for an unpleasant post (or mid) date kissing experience.

Maybe they'd just go with the old standby and share a package of Skittles. He could be a gentleman and let her have all the red and purple ones (if they could sort them in the dark, anyway). Rainbow goodnight kisses ftw!

And, personally, I say the best movie candy is Cookie Dough Bites, ESPECIALLY if you can get the peanut butter ones. *drools*

dejavu711
January 31st, 2010, 08:55 PM
O.O Chocolate is GOD'S GIFT TO THE WORLD! OMG! :laugh:
But I have never heard of Cookie Dough Bites. But I shall try them, because that means there is chocolate in them. :]

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 08:57 PM
No way, not M&M's. The twins don't really like chocolate, so he wouldn't want to set himself up for an unpleasant post (or mid) date kissing experience.

Maybe they'd just go with the old standby and share a package of Skittles. He could be a gentleman and let her have all the red and purple ones (if they could sort them in the dark, anyway). Rainbow goodnight kisses ftw!

And, personally, I say the best movie candy is Cookie Dough Bites, ESPECIALLY if you can get the peanut butter ones. *drools*

What are cookie dough bites? And Tom better be a gentlemen and share his popcorn and not hog it all like he did on THTV :laugh:

dejavu711
January 31st, 2010, 08:58 PM
What are cookie dough bites? And Tom better be a gentlemen and share his popcorn and not hog it all like he did on THTV :laugh:

It would be so funny if she stuck his hand in his popcorn and he was like "You have 10 seconds to get your hand OUT of my popcorn. GET UR OWN!*covers popping kernels*" :laugh:

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 08:59 PM
cookie dough bites are delicious..

tom holding on to the popcorn bag for dear life and staring intently at the movie screen is my favorite tom moment ever..

i think he would share.. he's used to sharing with bill! lol..

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 09:02 PM
It would be so funny if she stuck his hand in his popcorn and he was like "You have 10 seconds to get your hand OUT of my popcorn. GET UR OWN!*covers popping kernels*" :laugh:

Exactly! He'd buy her the skittles and expect her to not want any popcorn! :laugh:

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 09:02 PM
cookie dough bites are delicious..

tom holding on to the popcorn bag for dear life and staring intently at the movie screen is my favorite tom moment ever..

i think he would share.. he's used to sharing with bill! lol..

Sharing with Bill? He doesn't have a choice, Bill just takes things out of his hand!

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 09:03 PM
I'm old school and recommend pop corns on movies. After the movie it would be nice to dig the shells from the gap of your teeth :laugh:

I don't think Tom's taste in movies is that bad? Rather those than The NOtebook fopr millionth time.

I found it pretty weird anyways with Chantelle, when they were on an actual restaurant, because twins have said that they donät like fancy restaurants (I don't know how fancy that one was). But... maximizing the publicity? I would have chosen movie-dates instead... I think actual best "dates" there would include curling up in the corner of their couch with all the four dogs (and Tom, yes), have lots of candy and pop corn and watch movies from their (assumingly) huge tv. Nothing pretending or fake, no rosies or candles, just casual good time.

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 09:04 PM
Sharing with Bill? He doesn't have a choice, Bill just takes things out of his hand!

that's how bill asks for things!
he just skips the actual asking and permission part..

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 09:05 PM
Exactly! Bill keeps things simple with Tom. :laugh:

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 09:06 PM
I'm old school and recommend pop corns on movies. After the movie it would be nice to dig the shells from the gap of your teeth :laugh:

I don't think Tom's taste in movies is that bad? Rather those than The NOtebook fopr millionth time.

I found it pretty weird anyways with Chantelle, when they were on an actual restaurant, because twins have said that they donät like fancy restaurants (I don't know how fancy that one was). But... maximizing the publicity? I would have chosen movie-dates instead... I think actual best "dates" there would include curling up in the corner of their couch with all the four dogs (and Tom, yes), have lots of candy and pop corn and watch movies from their (assumingly) huge tv. Nothing pretending or fake, no rosies or candles, just casual good time.


I think that's how a lot of their dates will be when they first get girlfriends. Just simple stay home dinner and movie dates.

dejavu711
January 31st, 2010, 09:06 PM
Exactly! He'd buy her the skittles and expect her to not want any popcorn! :laugh:

It's like she's like "Tom, I'm out of Skittles." then he's like "Thats too bad then" and she's like "Can I have some of your popcorn?" then she gets THE STARE :| :laugh:

Lunoop
January 31st, 2010, 09:08 PM
It's like she's like "Tom, I'm out of Skittles." then he's like "Thats too bad then" and she's like "Can I have some of your popcorn?" then she gets THE STARE :| :laugh:

I just imagined the girl Tom takes to the movies picking up random candies off the theater floor out of starvation.

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 09:16 PM
Cookie Dough Bites are the best thing EVER. It's a little ball of (eggless, cause we don't want to die) cookie dough dipped in chocolate. They come in peanut butter, fudge brownie, mint chocolate chip, and chocolate chip. Most of the time you can only find the choco chip.

I find Tom's taste in movies to be...erratic. Like, I was ALL over the idea of seeing The Book of Eli, cause the video Tom posted made it look like Fallout the Movie. Then I read a review of the film, and spent the whole time making various degrees of the D: face. Then there are films like The Hangover and Bruno that I just have like NEGATIVE amounts of interest in watching. Then you have Public Enemies, which I liked. So, eh, it's a craps shoot.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 09:17 PM
Does Tom make movie references a lot or something, I think I have missed something with this?? and also what popocorn on THTV..have I missed a THTV ep?

Those cookie dough things are good..since they like skittles he'd probably end up getting some skittles. Oh and a Icee...yum!

Lunoop
January 31st, 2010, 09:20 PM
Cookie Dough Bites are the best thing EVER. It's a little ball of (eggless, cause we don't want to die) cookie dough dipped in chocolate. They come in peanut butter, fudge brownie, mint chocolate chip, and chocolate chip. Most of the time you can only find the choco chip.


The Cookie Dough Bites are like, official dollar store candy here. o_o I'm afraid to try dollar store candy because, it's .. dollar store candy .. But now I might try it because it sounds like candy God would make or something.

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 09:21 PM
Cookie Dough Bites are the best thing EVER. It's a little ball of (eggless, cause we don't want to die) cookie dough dipped in chocolate. They come in peanut butter, fudge brownie, mint chocolate chip, and chocolate chip. Most of the time you can only find the choco chip.

I find Tom's taste in movies to be...erratic. Like, I was ALL over the idea of seeing The Book of Eli, cause the video Tom posted made it look like Fallout the Movie. Then I read a review of the film, and spent the whole time making various degrees of the D: face. Then there are films like The Hangover and Bruno that I just have like NEGATIVE amounts of interest in watching. Then you have Public Enemies, which I liked. So, eh, it's a craps shoot.

Those sound yummy!

And Tom's taste in movies isn't that bad, I liked most of them lol. I saw Book of Eli and....eh, the ending was good to me.


Does Tom make movie references a lot or something, I think I have missed something with this?? and also what popocorn on THTV..have I missed a THTV ep?

Those cookie dough things are good..since they like skittles he'd probably end up getting some skittles. Oh and a Icee...yum!


Yeah, Tom talks about movies all the time in his blog. And there was a THTV episode where they all went to the movies and Tom was holding onto his popcorn for dear life.

Icees <33

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 09:23 PM
Do you remember which THTV episode that was? I don't think I've seen it.

What's the difference between Dollar Store candy and regular store candy? I've ate it before and I'm still alive and kickin'. It's cheaper yo, rock that stuff! I love Dollar Stores..I'd live in a Dollar Store if I could, lol.

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 09:25 PM
I actually can't remember what episode it was. I remember that it was one of the earlier ones though.

I'm always broke, so dollar store candy is the best!

Lunoop
January 31st, 2010, 09:27 PM
Do you remember which THTV episode that was? I don't think I've seen it.

What's the difference between Dollar Store candy and regular store candy? I've ate it before and I'm still alive and kickin'. It's cheaper yo, rock that stuff! I love Dollar Stores..I'd live in a Dollar Store if I could, lol.

I want to see the episode, too.

Dollar Stores here are ghetto.

They're ucky.

Everything is dusty and half the stuff expired in 1876. Most of the shelves are like some contraption using umbrellas and duct tape. And there's lots of food boxes that are open and spilled everywhere. I don't even know if I'd make it through the store to buy the candy.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 09:31 PM
LOL I don't know what Dollar Store you're visiting, but every one I've ever went to is not ghetto or falling apart or anything. The food I get from them I always check the expiration dates and they are always fine, like what you'd find at a regular grocery store. I get shampoo, makeup, deodorant, lotions, food, everything, at Dollar Stores! I'm a poor college student though, but even if I wasn't, I'd still love Dollar Stores! Some Dollar Stores you can even find cute clothes at, or purses and bags and hats, scarves, gloves, etc.

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 09:32 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWjwrmPjUBk

enjoy that adorableness..

Lunoop
January 31st, 2010, 09:36 PM
LOL I don't know what Dollar Store you're visiting, but every one I've ever went to is not ghetto or falling apart or anything. The food I get from them I always check the expiration dates and they are always fine, like what you'd find at a regular grocery store. I get shampoo, makeup, deodorant, lotions, food, everything, at Dollar Stores! I'm a poor college student though, but even if I wasn't, I'd still love Dollar Stores! Some Dollar Stores you can even find cute clothes at, or purses and bags and hats, scarves, gloves, etc.

There were places like that where I used to live, but we were even too cheap for that xD


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWjwrmPjUBk

enjoy that adorableness..

Oh, thank you.

And Tom definitely wouldn't share. Or have anything to share. I hope he's breathing. :o

Amdee
January 31st, 2010, 09:43 PM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mWjwrmPjUBk

enjoy that adorableness..

Awww Tom! :laugh:

Definitely not sharing.

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 10:21 PM
Why is the clip so short, was this a promo for something or just a THTV that was chopped up? What movie were they watching? haha, that is so funny!

julialyssa
January 31st, 2010, 10:54 PM
Do you think Tom would like Isla Fisher? She's cute and super funny

HugsNotDrugs
January 31st, 2010, 11:15 PM
I just can't see Tom with someone like Isa Fisher..I keep seeing Tom with a girly-girl that might be perceived as somewhat high maintenance..like that chick from Pussycat Dolls or that Viva interview..the girl with the blue dress, she and Tom seemed like they knew each other, I can picture him with someone like her..beautiful, confident, outgoing, makeup and hair perfect.

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 11:19 PM
The movie thing was just a weird random thing they threw out once upon a time. I can't even REMEMBER the reasoning behind it. But it's adooooorable.

CocoRockStar
January 31st, 2010, 11:19 PM
The movie thing was just a weird random thing they threw out once upon a time. I can't even REMEMBER the reasoning behind it. But it's adooooorable.

Do we need a reason to watch the boys be normal boys??

ANTi_POP_CHiC007
January 31st, 2010, 11:21 PM
no reason is needed when it's that aww worthy..

Metro-Retro!
January 31st, 2010, 11:28 PM
@HugsNotDrugs-Nicole from PCD? Is that who you're talking about?

THDGaja
January 31st, 2010, 11:43 PM
Do we need a reason to watch the boys be normal boys??


no reason is needed when it's that aww worthy..

I most certainly do not need a special reason to watch Tom be a sweety kitten. <3 :D

ray_ray2384
February 1st, 2010, 12:17 AM
Mayb all his sex talk is just 1 of his ways of handling with uncomfortable situations.
He refrains from talking about personal opinions about women by cracking a generalised sex joke. That way he doesnt have to give away his inner thoughts/feelings (and maybe insecurities), gains respect as the 'comedian' of the group and his confidence is restored.

I agree with you! It's much easier to make jokes than to be serious and reveal true, inner feelings. With the video interview I provided earlier on, there's a great example of Tom using a sexual joke/comment as a way to keep himself from answering a serious question.

ray_ray2384
February 1st, 2010, 12:34 AM
I think the boys have mentioned they hate "dating" like going out on dates. So I wonder what Tom would do instead of taking a girl out? Didn't he take Chantelle or something out though, wasn't there photos of them in a car on a date and in a bar? All sex talk aside for this, what would he do? Or would he even know what to do?? lol

America's idea of dating is much different than Germany's idea of dating. so, while Tom says he hates dating. I do think he still goes out and mingles with women.

When that first photo of Tom/Chantelle came out, they were in a restaurant. and if i'm not mistaken, they were not alone. I do think Bill was there too and so was Chantelle's friends. It was a whole group. So, while it seems as if Tom/Chantelle were on a private date. It seems as if it was a group outing.

When Tom meets a woman he likes and wants to spend time some time with her. I think he will do what he can do depending on the amount of free time he has. Tom usually talks about inviting a girl back to his hotel room.

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HugsNotDrugs: I can def. see Tom with a girl who's similar in looks to Nicole S. of PCD, Jordyn Talor and Collien Fernandes. She's the Viva Live host you're talking about! Tom is always flirting with her during their interviews! Then again, he usually flirts with any attractive female he meets! :lol:

Here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O3_NaRLQiMc&feature=related She's widely popular in Germany, especially among the men! It appears that many German men favor women with exotic features.

Jordyn: http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1373/533184947_9dbfdf4789.jpg Tom was definitely checking her out during the Myspace Music interview!

Metro-Retro!
February 1st, 2010, 12:42 AM
Ray Ray - Can you explain to me how dating in Germany is, please?

Mikoto
February 1st, 2010, 12:43 AM
Not to seem young, but I probably will, but who would honestly accept an offer like that? Oh sure, mysterious stranger who I only met tonight, I'll come back to your room not knowing if you're some raping murderer, and roll around with you. It will be fun!

I'm probably exaggerating, but I just can't imagine someone actually lowering themselves to that standard. And sorry if that's your thing and you like the whole "one-night-stand" thing, but to me it just seems... unrealistic.

But anyway, I don't care if Tom is serious about all his sex jokes. Even though I doubt it, they're still funny. They give you a laugh, at least, and Tom's laughing when he says it. I've never seen him once make a perverted joke without smiling, looking away or laughing. And come on, everyone loves a perv. They're the most fun to be around because they say what everyone else wouldn't dare say; which makes it funnier, lmao :grin:

Metro-Retro!
February 1st, 2010, 12:49 AM
Yeah, I want someone to be like "Look me straight in the eyes, and tell me that you have slept with X number of girls...with a straight face!" (:<

ray_ray2384
February 1st, 2010, 01:09 AM
Ray Ray - Can you explain to me how dating in Germany is, please?

Only a German can explain how dating is in Germany! :lol: I base my thoughts on what I've heard others say about the topic.

but, here is a brief video about the differences of American/German dating:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BErXo4Sq8Ew

From personal experiences, I do not favor the American way of dating. To me, dating is all about getting to know a person. But, in america, if i were to say i was dating a man for about a month or so, most ppl would assume we're in an exclusive relationship and he's my boyfriend. Where, in truth, he's just a friend whom I enjoy spending time with.

Metro-Retro!
February 1st, 2010, 01:12 AM
Oh, I love Germany vs. USA. LOL

Thanks Ray Ray! :)

HugsNotDrugs
February 1st, 2010, 10:41 PM
Do you think Tom would date you? I don't think he would date me, I am ugly and shy and quiet and have the personality of a wet sponge.

THDGaja
February 1st, 2010, 10:54 PM
Ooh, we have a thread about that: http://www.tokiohotel.com/us/forum/showthread.php?t=2050

Most people on here (at least the ones that commented over there) went with no, which both surprised and pleased me. It was kinda nice seeing people not be all 'of course I am, and we ARE going to get married and have a million kids and and and!!!'

Ripitgirl19
February 2nd, 2010, 01:08 AM
Not to seem young, but I probably will, but who would honestly accept an offer like that? Oh sure, mysterious stranger who I only met tonight, I'll come back to your room not knowing if you're some raping murderer, and roll around with you. It will be fun!

I'm probably exaggerating, but I just can't imagine someone actually lowering themselves to that standard. And sorry if that's your thing and you like the whole "one-night-stand" thing, but to me it just seems... unrealistic.

But anyway, I don't care if Tom is serious about all his sex jokes. Even though I doubt it, they're still funny. They give you a laugh, at least, and Tom's laughing when he says it. I've never seen him once make a perverted joke without smiling, looking away or laughing. And come on, everyone loves a perv. They're the most fun to be around because they say what everyone else wouldn't dare say; which makes it funnier, lmao :grin:
Nope, you don't seem young, because I'm 17, and I don't like one night stands. I mean, I've never had one because it's below my standards; But hey, to each her own.

Yeah, I want someone to be like "Look me straight in the eyes, and tell me that you have slept with X number of girls...with a straight face!" (:<
Oh I would love to see someone ask Tom that =P

Do you think Tom would date you? I don't think he would date me, I am ugly and shy and quiet and have the personality of a wet sponge.
Not to be rude, but what exactly is the personality of a wet sponge?

Ooh, we have a thread about that: http://www.tokiohotel.com/us/forum/showthread.php?t=2050

Most people on here (at least the ones that commented over there) went with no, which both surprised and pleased me. It was kinda nice seeing people not be all 'of course I am, and we ARE going to get married and have a million kids and and and!!!'
A million kids?...*In the words of Joe Dirt* Dang! :laugh:

Amhazi
February 2nd, 2010, 08:16 PM
Do you think Tom would date you? I don't think he would date me, I am ugly and shy and quiet and have the personality of a wet sponge.


This is all subjectively-based. So who's to say. Don't cut yourself short dear.

Tom is just a guy...no more no less.

THDGaja
February 2nd, 2010, 10:34 PM
A million kids?...*In the words of Joe Dirt* Dang! :laugh:

A MILLION kids. We all know that Tom wants a baby army, just look at his blog and how often he posts videos of children. Once he gets started, he's not gonna stop until his baby momma threatens him with an aggressive castration.

But just think how cute that baby army is going to be. Awwww!

Marley
February 3rd, 2010, 12:51 AM
A MILLION kids. We all know that Tom wants a baby army, just look at his blog and how often he posts videos of children. Once he gets started, he's not gonna stop until his baby momma threatens him with an aggressive castration.

But just think how cute that baby army is going to be. Awwww!

Awhhh and that poor woman*wink*!

Amdee
February 3rd, 2010, 02:25 AM
A MILLION kids. We all know that Tom wants a baby army, just look at his blog and how often he posts videos of children. Once he gets started, he's not gonna stop until his baby momma threatens him with an aggressive castration.

But just think how cute that baby army is going to be. Awwww!

Well, for that, he has practised intensively for years already? :laugh:

He is so going to get as many kids as possible. My wild guess is 3 is not enough. And what if he'd get twins? Tom would die of happiness. :smile:
His future woman should be prepaired...

Mikoto
February 3rd, 2010, 02:41 AM
Well, for that, he has practised intensively for years already? :laugh:

He is so going to get as many kids as possible. My wild guess is 3 is not enough. And what if he'd get twins? Tom would die of happiness. :smile:
His future woman should be prepaired...
That's good, because I do eventually want lots and lots of kids 8)




...Just kidding... smelly, drooling, farting things that they are o.O

THDGaja
February 3rd, 2010, 01:30 PM
I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.

Marley
February 3rd, 2010, 01:58 PM
I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.

Stop stop stop! Your description of that was too sweet and I Liked it and I am not a sweet liking person!! Oh the thought of that is so cute too!!

Amdee
February 3rd, 2010, 02:17 PM
Stop stop stop! Your description of that was too sweet and I Liked it and I am not a sweet liking person!! Oh the thought of that is so cute too!!

I second that!

It would be adorable beyond possible and remember that I DON'T like children that muich. This is serious :laugh:

CocoRockStar
February 3rd, 2010, 02:28 PM
I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.

The twins are going to be such adorable dads! *squeals* :grin:

TH Rox My Sox
February 3rd, 2010, 03:14 PM
I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.

Aww, that's so cute!!

I can totally see him spoiling those kids rotten. Every time he comes back home from a tour its like Christmas! :-) New electronic toys and all kinds of fun things...

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
February 3rd, 2010, 03:26 PM
I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.

: O I can actually imagine Tom just walking around with one set of twins attached to one leg, another set of twins on the other, and one kid randomly glomping his head. Sorry, that mental image amuses me! :]
Twins run in my family...
No one heard that, hmkay?

Sim_1
February 3rd, 2010, 05:24 PM
Awww wouldnt it b adorable if Bill and Tom's kids looked really alike.

ray_ray2384
February 3rd, 2010, 07:07 PM
I'm sure they will!

I don't think Tom would mesh well with a girl who doesn't have strong family values.

THDGaja
February 3rd, 2010, 07:41 PM
You absolutely KNOW the the twins would dote on their kids like they held the moon. Uncle Bill would be all about slipping them candy when they were visiting Nana Simone, and Daddy Tom would bring home and entire suitcase of kitsch from everywhere he went in the world. There'd be little dolls and snow globes and wacky wind up toys EVERYWHERE in that house.

I just keep picturing this tiny little 5 year old with big brown eyes and dark blonde hair curled up sleeping on the couch in one of daddy's giant shirts. <333 Or running around the yard using it as a cape. :D

Ms.DangerousThing
February 3rd, 2010, 08:51 PM
Saddly i am already taken so i am like out of the picture of the kaulitz twins. :laugh: xD

laurenn
February 3rd, 2010, 09:01 PM
lol, yeah, tom, bill, georg and gustav will be great dads. showering them with gifts. haha

back on topic. haha :) do you think tom would like a girl that was more of a air head or someone that thought about things?(make sense? lol, i am very tired)

julialyssa
February 3rd, 2010, 11:36 PM
lol, yeah, tom, bill, georg and gustav will be great dads. showering them with gifts. haha

back on topic. haha :) do you think tom would like a girl that was more of a air head or someone that thought about things?(make sense? lol, i am very tired)

An airhead would bore him too quickly, it takes a smarter girl to keep him interested...cause realistically , sex he can get from anyone, so it's gonna take more. She has to be smart, but not stuck up snobbish smart, smart but fun. definitely has to be able to keep up with them and their innuendos and jokes.

Marley
February 3rd, 2010, 11:36 PM
lol, yeah, tom, bill, georg and gustav will be great dads. showering them with gifts. haha

back on topic. haha :) do you think tom would like a girl that was more of a air head or someone that thought about things?(make sense? lol, i am very tired)


I think that Tom would appreciate being able to hold an actual conversation with someone rather then just someone who sits there and laughs,smiles,and agrees with everything he says.I also think he would like to be able to laugh with someone who can be serious when need be,but to enjoy life as well.I agree with Ray and think that the girl he eventually ends up with will for sure need a strong family value base and understand his relationship with Bill.But that being said,it's only my opinion and I have no idea!*wink*

ray_ray2384
February 4th, 2010, 04:10 AM
i agree, Marley. I can't see Tom in a relationship with an airhead, bimbo for too long. She can be as gorgeous as a supermodel. But, if Tom can't connect with her on an intellectual level. What's the point?

KaitMazing94
February 4th, 2010, 04:21 AM
lol, yeah, tom, bill, georg and gustav will be great dads. showering them with gifts. haha

back on topic. haha :) do you think tom would like a girl that was more of a air head or someone that thought about things?(make sense? lol, i am very tired)
Hmmm smart girl!

I can't see Tom being with a bimbo "Don't ask me, Im just a girl!" kind of person lol.

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
February 4th, 2010, 01:18 PM
Yeah, Tom would so get bored of someone who would just kinda shrug at intellectual questions or just avoid serious conversations or something...

what about attention span? Like, would he like someone who just wandered off in the middle of a conversation or was easily distracted or someon who invests all their time and attention towards Tom?

laurenn
February 4th, 2010, 04:23 PM
okay, thanks guys :)
and i think that he would want his girl to be into him, but not clingy. I don't think he'd want her to call every single minute to make sure he is ok, not cheating, etc.

Marley
February 4th, 2010, 04:31 PM
]Krissie!;639322']Yeah, Tom would so get bored of someone who would just kinda shrug at intellectual questions or just avoid serious conversations or something...

what about attention span? Like, would he like someone who just wandered off in the middle of a conversation or was easily distracted or someon who invests all their time and attention towards Tom?


He is use to the attention span thing...ummm.. Bill!:lol::lol:

ray_ray2384
February 4th, 2010, 04:34 PM
okay, thanks guys :)
and i think that he would want his girl to be into him, but not clingy. I don't think he'd want her to call every single minute to make sure he is ok, not cheating, etc.

yes...I do think Tom would appreciate it if his girl would give him his space when he needed it.

Marley
February 4th, 2010, 04:43 PM
yes...I do think Tom would appreciate it if his girl would give him his space when he needed it.


I would hope so too! And I think it's going to take the kind of girl that is not clingy or insecure to intrigue him. Someone who would be ok with spending time away from him and allowing him to be him and have his "job" time and then have his "down and real" time all without her having to be there 100% of the time, but also someone who wants to be with him and is there for him....:P

ray_ray2384
February 4th, 2010, 04:47 PM
I would hope so too! And I think it's going to take the kind of girl that is not clingy or insecure to intrigue him. Someone who would be ok with spending time away from him and allowing him to be him and have his "job" time and then have his "down and real" time all without her having to be there 100% of the time, but also someone who wants to be with him and is there for him....:P

yes, all of that and a woman who's secure enough in herself and the relationship that she won't jealousy overcome her. I mean, having an attractive bf who's wanted by so many woman can make some women want to be more possessive/jealous.

Marley
February 4th, 2010, 05:05 PM
yes, all of that and a woman who's secure enough in herself and the relationship that she won't jealousy overcome her. I mean, having an attractive bf who's wanted by so many woman can make some women want to be more possessive/jealous.


EXACTLY!!! Some girls don't even want to deal with all that would come with the fact of having a famous boyfriend.Can you imagine the hate mail that she would get? Just thought of the videos that some of those crazy girls would make and put on Youtube...it makes me laugh but it would definitely take a strong person to see and hear that stuff. I would just say..good luck to that!:lol:

ray_ray2384
February 4th, 2010, 07:02 PM
the girl will receive the same, if not more, hate as Natalie. and trust me, she'll have her own "paparazzi" following her around taking pictures. Fans do the same thing to Natalie and she's only the band's makeup stylist.

CocoRockStar
February 4th, 2010, 07:16 PM
I think it's sad that the first glimpse the fandom will get of one of the twins' girlfriends, will be from stalkers.

Sim_1
February 4th, 2010, 07:24 PM
Yh thats true.

But don't forget, she will have supporters. Not every1 will hate her. All the 'mature' fans (like us ;)) will appreciate the fact that Tom has found sum1 that he cares about and wish her all the luck for their relationship cuz she's sure as h*ll gonna need it lol.

CocoRockStar
February 4th, 2010, 07:25 PM
I already feel sorry for the poor girl and she's not even dating Tom yet lol

Marley
February 4th, 2010, 07:55 PM
I already feel sorry for the poor girl and she's not even dating Tom yet lol


I agree...Whoever she is I just hope she has a good head on her shoulders and a strong heart!

laurenn
February 4th, 2010, 09:10 PM
yeah. i will feel really bad for the girl who dates tom too. I would think of her as lucky and probably cool chick, because let us face it, tom won't pick some loser, she'll be a totally rad chick. I feel bad because of all those fans(like everyone has said) that will give her hate mail, hate videos, stalker pictures, etc.
I think that those bad things are a BIG reason the band, especially the twins, don't have girlfriends(except georg AHH YAY! good for him). They don't want their girl to become hurt, scared, and depressed from all the rude things the public would be saying about her.
I support them with girlfriends or without girlfriends. They're simply awesome dudes!

THDGaja
February 4th, 2010, 09:18 PM
I already feel sorry for the poor girl and she's not even dating Tom yet lol

^ completely agreed.

ray_ray2384
February 4th, 2010, 11:07 PM
yeah. i will feel really bad for the girl who dates tom too. I would think of her as lucky and probably cool chick, because let us face it, tom won't pick some loser, she'll be a totally rad chick. I feel bad because of all those fans(like everyone has said) that will give her hate mail, hate videos, stalker pictures, etc.
I think that those bad things are a BIG reason the band, especially the twins, don't have girlfriends(except georg AHH YAY! good for him). They don't want their girl to become hurt, scared, and depressed from all the rude things the public would be saying about her.
I support them with girlfriends or without girlfriends. They're simply awesome dudes!

I've wondered if a potential girlfriend was scared off when she realized how much drama she'd have to deal with by being Tom's girlfriend?

Chookie
February 5th, 2010, 02:30 PM
I think everybody know what it could be... To be Tom's girlfriend.

I mean music and work is the first for him, and of course, Bill, and i think Bill's opinion about Tom's GF is important Tom. Or don't know.

But you should know, that propably for the first time you won't be the first thing. I mean, he loves you, but I'm not sure that he can pay as much attention as he want. But I think he would try to do everything, to prove, that you're his number one girl :D In his own way :)

laurenn
February 5th, 2010, 02:34 PM
I've wondered if a potential girlfriend was scared off when she realized how much drama she'd have to deal with by being Tom's girlfriend?

yeah :/ that is so depressing if you think about it. He could be happy, like legit happy, but some of the fans would make HUGE drama over it.
:/ poor tom. *hugs tom* it's like they're trapped in this world being like zoo animals for everyone's entertainment...i'll make cookies for the whole band to cheer them up, lol (cheezy i know)

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 05:38 PM
it's like they're trapped in this world being like zoo animals for everyone's entertainment...

Yes :sad: THat's how I see it often. And not just because of these relationship issues, but in general, and it always makes me wonder if I am partly quilty for that...

HugsNotDrugs
February 5th, 2010, 06:12 PM
Personally I think both Bill and Tom are too immature and self-centered at their young age to really be in a relationship. They seem to look more for what someone could do for them and less about what they could offer someone. Plus the fact that they are branching out and becoming more successful, they have a lot to deal with right now.

Also..is Georg's gf fake? Is it just something for publicity for the band and Georg's image? I have a theory..it might be insane but here goes..you never see photos of her, no one knows her or her name, whenever love stuff comes up Georg has to be prompted to remember that he even has a girlfriend (this has happened in several interviews) and then his expression looks like "this is so dumb, why do i have to do this?"

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
February 5th, 2010, 06:20 PM
Personally I think both Bill and Tom are too immature and self-centered at their young age to really be in a relationship. They seem to look more for what someone could do for them and less about what they could offer someone. Plus the fact that they are branching out and becoming more successful, they have a lot to deal with right now.

Also..is Georg's gf fake? Is it just something for publicity for the band and Georg's image? I have a theory..it might be insane but here goes..you never see photos of her, no one knows her or her name, whenever love stuff comes up Georg has to be prompted to remember that he even has a girlfriend (this has happened in several interviews) and then his expression looks like "this is so dumb, why do i have to do this?"
Nahhh, I genuinley believe Georg has a girlfriend. He's not as much in the public eye as the twins are, so he doesn't have as many savage CFFs stalking or writing hate letters to his girlfriend.

But I'm actually scared when Tom gets a gf, poor Chantelle got hate letters and death threats for going on a DATE with him, I dread to think what would happed when it happens for real.

Pixle3000
February 5th, 2010, 06:21 PM
Personally I think both Bill and Tom are too immature and self-centered at their young age to really be in a relationship. They seem to look more for what someone could do for them and less about what they could offer someone. Plus the fact that they are branching out and becoming more successful, they have a lot to deal with right now.

Also..is Georg's gf fake? Is it just something for publicity for the band and Georg's image? I have a theory..it might be insane but here goes..you never see photos of her, no one knows her or her name, whenever love stuff comes up Georg has to be prompted to remember that he even has a girlfriend (this has happened in several interviews) and then his expression looks like "this is so dumb, why do i have to do this?"



It may be true...Bill may feel like "I'M READY NOW!!" when it comes to love...but his thinking and current situation (band etc.) isn't quite ready for it...Tom himself admits that he is too young to really freak out about it...He's more realistic and grounded when it comes to love...


As for Georg---I think he does have a girlfriend...Honestly why would he lie? Though yeah there are times when he momentarily remembers...But the "This is so dumb etc" look could just be when people keep asking about the relationship or when Tom makes a perverted or unnecessary comment about it...


But yeah...Lol! I don't think he's faking it...Tom thinks he's too young for a serious relationship; and Bill? Well...That's just...Bill.

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 06:22 PM
Personally I think both Bill and Tom are too immature and self-centered at their young age to really be in a relationship. They seem to look more for what someone could do for them and less about what they could offer someone. Plus the fact that they are branching out and becoming more successful, they have a lot to deal with right now.

Also..is Georg's gf fake? Is it just something for publicity for the band and Georg's image? I have a theory..it might be insane but here goes..you never see photos of her, no one knows her or her name, whenever love stuff comes up Georg has to be prompted to remember that he even has a girlfriend (this has happened in several interviews) and then his expression looks like "this is so dumb, why do i have to do this?"

Ahh......you bring up a good question! But, i'll pm you!

I do not believe Tom is too immature and self-centered to be in a relationship right now. He's had to grow up real fast since he became famous. So, I think he can deal with the stress of having a serious relationship and being a megastar.

I'maWriterandProud17
February 5th, 2010, 06:31 PM
It may be true...Bill may feel like "I'M READY NOW!!" when it comes to love...but his thinking and current situation (band etc.) isn't quite ready for it...Tom himself admits that he is too young to really freak out about it...He's more realistic and grounded when it comes to love...


As for Georg---I think he does have a girlfriend...Honestly why would he lie? Though yeah there are times when he momentarily remembers...But the "This is so dumb etc" look could just be when people keep asking about the relationship or when Tom makes a perverted or unnecessary comment about it...


But yeah...Lol! I don't think he's faking it...Tom thinks he's too young for a serious relationship; and Bill? Well...That's just...Bill.

I think that Georg does have a girlfriend. There is no point in him lying, and Georg wouldn't do that anyway. He's Georg, come on. I mean...Tom...yeah, I could see that. Maybe. But even with him it's a stretch. Georg...no.

And I think it's interesting the way the twins respond to love. Each so drastically, and completely different than the other. Bill feels like it would be the best thing in the world, but that it's not possible. And you can tell he really, genuinely feels that way, because if you watch closely (and i'm sure you all do, as do i ;) ) when he talks about love, he gets a sad look in his eye. That and he's totally obsessed with it. That's the other clue-in. So, Bill = obsessed with love. Tom, on the other hand, almost pushes it away. This is just my opinion, but I get the feeling that Tom almost fears true commitment. That's why he says it would get boring to be with one girl forever. That's why he hasn't dated seriously in quite a long time. He fears being with a person like that, for whatever reason. So Tom = afraid of commitment.

I think they both developed radical views on the subject of love because of their parents' divorce. When you're as young as they were, yet still old enough to realize what's going on, then you'd be effected. They were both effected somewhat negatively. Let's face it, an obsession with anything - especially something you feel you can't have - is unhealthy. Bill doesn't think he can have love, yet he's totally obsessed with it. Tom pushes it away.

Wow, that was quite the long post.....

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 06:33 PM
We don't know if Tom hasn't dated seriously in a long time.

laurenn
February 5th, 2010, 06:33 PM
Yes :sad: THat's how I see it often. And not just because of these relationship issues, but in general, and it always makes me wonder if I am partly quilty for that...

yeah, i feel that way sometimes too, but then i think to myself, if i ever saw them on the street, i wouldn't be screaming or freaking them out. Just say, 'hey, how are you?' and treat them as humans and not as the gods some fans say they are. because they aren't gods, they're people, and they deserve a nice conversation without any screaming or girls breaking down crying.

Sim_1
February 5th, 2010, 06:36 PM
LMAO I've noticed too that Georg occasionally needs a reminder. Although, i don't think they wud go that far to make up 1. That can potentially mess with ppls heads, love is an extremely powerful emotion that shouldnt be joked about with.

Yh the twins are young (but so are a lot of ppl in this world ;-) ) and their perception on life is alot different than the average, so i totally agree with you that they are a lil' immature in the love department -1 f*cks anything with a pulse and the other believes his true love is gonna fall outta the sky lol.
However i think if they did find sum1 they were interested in, they could handle it. Love isnt something that can be learnd, its just human nature so when the time is right, they will know what to do.... and offer the girl more than just "2000 Euro's" after sex lol

I'maWriterandProud17
February 5th, 2010, 06:39 PM
We don't know if Tom hasn't dated seriously in a long time.

That's true :D
But I get the feeling he hasn't.
i dunno why......it isn't actually founded in any fact lol

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 06:41 PM
I don't believe in the images Tom and Bill present. So, even if tom presents himself as a player. I see right through it. Bill tells us he's all about romance/love. I see right through that as well.

CocoRockStar
February 5th, 2010, 06:43 PM
I pretty much agree with everything Pixle3000 and I'maWriterandProud17 said. Darn you guys for beating me to it!

I'maWriterandProud17
February 5th, 2010, 06:45 PM
I don't believe in the images Tom and Bill present. So, even if tom presents himself as a player. I see right through it. Bill tells us he's all about romance/love. I see right through that as well.

I don't believe Tom is a player - I just don't think he is the type who would get serious with a girl. Yet, at least. And when I say serious, I mean seriously serious (duh). As in, going out for more than a year and still loving each other.

Sim_1
February 5th, 2010, 06:48 PM
I don't believe in the images Tom and Bill present. So, even if tom presents himself as a player. I see right through it. Bill tells us he's all about romance/love. I see right through that as well.

Its funny you should say that coz sometimes i think they do push the whole 'polar opposites' to the extreme.
Its almost like it started as a clever marketing strategy to have identical twins that are completley different from eachother and this concept has now continued throughout their whole careers.

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 06:48 PM
I don't believe Tom is a player - I just don't think he is the type who would get serious with a girl. Yet, at least. And when I say serious, I mean seriously serious (duh). As in, going out for more than a year and still loving each other.

I think once he meets that very special girl. He will make all the necessary and expected sacrifices to love his girl and make the relationship work. Sure, Tom has discouraging views on love. But, it doesn't mean he can't learn to think positively about love/relationships. He's only 20. He has time!

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 06:50 PM
Its funny you should say that coz somethines i think they do push the whole 'polar opposites' to the extreme.
Its almost like it started as a clever marketing strategy to have identical twins that are completley different from eachother and this comcept has now continued throughout their whole careers.

Yes! in appearance and values, Tom and Bill are polar opposites. But, I believe, in reality, they are more similar than they would like us to know.

laurenn
February 5th, 2010, 06:53 PM
I think once he meets that very special girl. He will make all the necessary and expected sacrifices to love his girl and make the relationship work. Sure, Tom has discouraging views on love. But, it doesn't mean he can't learn to think positively about love/relationships. He's only 20. He has time!


i believe that he will be a very good boyfriend to the girl. He is caring and he is protective(but not too protective) which are two good things. and he does have time, he is only 20. just like ray said

CocoRockStar
February 5th, 2010, 06:54 PM
Its funny you should say that coz sometimes i think they do push the whole 'polar opposites' to the extreme.
Its almost like it started as a clever marketing strategy to have identical twins that are completley different from eachother and this concept has now continued throughout their whole careers.

Yes, I also believe the media stuck them in those roles also.

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
February 5th, 2010, 06:55 PM
I've aways though that Tom uses the 'playa' persona to cover up the fact that he's just downright scared of commitment, but that's just me. -wanders off to Tom Pix-

I'maWriterandProud17
February 5th, 2010, 06:56 PM
I think once he meets that very special girl. He will make all the necessary and expected sacrifices to love his girl and make the relationship work. Sure, Tom has discouraging views on love. But, it doesn't mean he can't learn to think positively about love/relationships. He's only 20. He has time!

I agree completely.
Right now, of course, he doesn't "believe" in love, if that makes sense, but he will, eventually, find a girl that can and will change that. However, that is far in the future - like you said, he's 20. That and he's an international rockstar....not exactly the most desirable boyfriend material (well okay, desirable, but not the consequences). Most girls won't bother to push through that - but one day he'll find a girl that will.

I'maWriterandProud17
February 5th, 2010, 06:57 PM
]Krissie!;640371']I've aways though that Tom uses the 'playa' persona to cover up the fact that he's just downright scared of commitment, but that's just me. -wanders off to Tom Pix-

-agrees completely-

CocoRockStar
February 5th, 2010, 06:58 PM
]Krissie!;640371']I've aways though that Tom uses the 'playa' persona to cover up the fact that he's just downright scared of commitment, but that's just me. -wanders off to Tom Pix-

I definitely think he's apprehensive about falling in love. He's going to fall hard and fast when he finds that special girl, and he doesn't want to get his heart broken. I really can't blame him.

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 07:01 PM
Yes! in appearance and values, Tom and Bill are polar opposites. But, I believe, in reality, they are more similar than they would like us to know.

I second that.
But unlike some people, I don't believe them being opposites is purely a marketing stragedy. It can be seen in them before TH; they were already expressing themselves differently. Just that they are intentionally taking it a bit further than they actually are.

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 07:05 PM
I second that.
But unlike some people, I don't believe them being opposites is purely a marketing stragedy. It can be seen in them before TH; they were already expressing themselves differently. Just that they are intentionally taking it a bit further than they actually are.

you're right. Before Tokio Hotel existed, Tom/Bill were different. But, I think as the twins became more famous. Their differences were exaggerated to the extreme. There is some truth to what we see on TV, read about in interviews and such. But, it's not the entire truth.

Honestly, I believe Tom uses his player image to hide his sensitivity. Many men who put up a macho front are only masking their true selves.

Sim_1
February 5th, 2010, 07:13 PM
I second that.
But unlike some people, I don't believe them being opposites is purely a marketing stragedy. It can be seen in them before TH; they were already expressing themselves differently. Just that they are intentionally taking it a bit further than they actually are.


Oh don't get me wrong. Its clear that they did have their own unique ways of expressing themselves from the very beginning. However i still feel that the music industry and the media, as CocoRockStar rightly put it, has had an immense impact on the development of the 'antagonist' idea.

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 07:15 PM
Yup, his image is also a good cover and kind of a shelter. I don't know about shyness and all that, but quite honestly I have a feeling that he is actually more sensitive, softer and insecure than Bill. He seems to be also very self-concious. IF you want to break one of them in some way, I'm sure Tom would be easier to break than Bill.

Ripitgirl19
February 5th, 2010, 07:19 PM
A MILLION kids. We all know that Tom wants a baby army, just look at his blog and how often he posts videos of children. Once he gets started, he's not gonna stop until his baby momma threatens him with an aggressive castration.

But just think how cute that baby army is going to be. Awwww!


I can see Tom trying again and again and again until he gets a pair or twins. That would tweak him (and Bill) out to no end. But, ee! Can't you picture multiple sets of twins? And this whole sea of small children clamoring over him when he comes home, cheers of 'daddy!' ringing through the house and he's coated in hugs? Adorable! He'd melt into a puddle of grins and love.
Those images are adorable!
And I work with little kids, ages newborn to 12, and I love it. I use to hate kids with a burning passion, but then my sister had my nephew and I fell in love with them. And sometimes they are dripping some form of goop, boogers, whatever, but not all the time. And they really do grow on you =]

]Krissie!;638828']: O I can actually imagine Tom just walking around with one set of twins attached to one leg, another set of twins on the other, and one kid randomly glomping his head. Sorry, that mental image amuses me! :]
Twins run in my family...
No one heard that, hmkay?
Mine too! My cousin has twins and I'm completely jealous of her. I've wanted twin boys since I was like, 8. She might have gotten girls, but they ares still twins!

You absolutely KNOW the the twins would dote on their kids like they held the moon. Uncle Bill would be all about slipping them candy when they were visiting Nana Simone, and Daddy Tom would bring home and entire suitcase of kitsch from everywhere he went in the world. There'd be little dolls and snow globes and wacky wind up toys EVERYWHERE in that house.

I just keep picturing this tiny little 5 year old with big brown eyes and dark blonde hair curled up sleeping on the couch in one of daddy's giant shirts. <333 Or running around the yard using it as a cape. :D
Hahahahaha I could so picture Bill doing that! And :laugh: at Tom's shirt being a cape.

I think the twins will be great dads, I mean, they wont be for a while, but when they finally settle down I think they will be.

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 07:20 PM
Oh don't get me wrong. Its clear that they did have their own unique ways of expressing themselves from the very beginning. However i still feel that the music industry and the media, as CocoRockStar rightly put it, has had an immense impact on the development of the 'antagonist' idea.

OH, I understand and I agree. It's quite obvious how enormous value their "twin-ness" and still opposite roles has from marketing's point of view. I think we all are at least little bit fell for that and it's not bad, because it's nice.

I just wanted to point out that there are actually people, who keep their differencies, looks etc. ONLY as a marketing strategy and them as a products from the top of their heads to the tips of their toes.

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 07:21 PM
Yup, his image is also a good cover and kind of a shelter. I don't know about shyness and all that, but quite honestly I have a feeling that he is actually more sensitive, softer and insecure than Bill. He seems to be also very self-concious. IF you want to break one of them in some way, I'm sure Tom would be easier to break than Bill.

Well, that did happen.

I definitely agree with the bolded words. Which would explain Tom's macho front and why he usually talks a big game.

CocoRockStar
February 5th, 2010, 07:24 PM
Yup, his image is also a good cover and kind of a shelter. I don't know about shyness and all that, but quite honestly I have a feeling that he is actually more sensitive, softer and insecure than Bill. He seems to be also very self-concious. IF you want to break one of them in some way, I'm sure Tom would be easier to break than Bill.

What exactly did you mean by that last sentence? Like break him of certain habits?

Sim_1
February 5th, 2010, 07:39 PM
I just wanted to point out that there are actually people, who keep their differencies, looks etc. ONLY as a marketing strategy and them as a products from the top of their heads to the tips of their toes.
Yh i get wat u mean. It must be really depressin for the artists out there that have to pretend for the benefit of their popularity. =/


Yup, his image is also a good cover and kind of a shelter. I don't know about shyness and all that, but quite honestly I have a feeling that he is actually more sensitive, softer and insecure than Bill. He seems to be also very self-concious. IF you want to break one of them in some way, I'm sure Tom would be easier to break than Bill.

I really wanna see a girl break Tom's heart lol. Not in a spiteful way, i just want her to make him realise how he has made others feel in the past.
Is that mean?
It sounds kind of sadistic lol

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 07:39 PM
What exactly did you mean by that last sentence? Like break him of certain habits?

I mean breaking him mentally. I don't know how to explain it right, but I think if someone really wants to mentally "put him on his knees", he'd be easier to break like that than Bill. I don't mean weak or anythiong, but because I think he is more sensitive and insecure etc. someone wanting bad to him, could more easily harm him in psychological ways. Did that make any sense?

CocoRockStar
February 5th, 2010, 07:49 PM
I mean breaking him mentally. I don't know how to explain it right, but I think if someone really wants to mentally "put him on his knees", he'd be easier to break like that than Bill. I don't mean weak or anythiong, but because I think he is more sensitive and insecure etc. someone wanting bad to him, could more easily harm him in psychological ways. Did that make any sense?

That made perfect sense! Thanks for explaining, I was just wondering what you meant :smile:

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 07:59 PM
I mean breaking him mentally. I don't know how to explain it right, but I think if someone really wants to mentally "put him on his knees", he'd be easier to break like that than Bill. I don't mean weak or anythiong, but because I think he is more sensitive and insecure etc. someone wanting bad to him, could more easily harm him in psychological ways. Did that make any sense?

I believe that is what the stalkers did to him. Brought him to his breaking point and he reacted.

Amdee
February 5th, 2010, 08:07 PM
I believe that is what the stalkers did to him. Brought him to his breaking point and he reacted.

I think so too. :sad:

ray_ray2384
February 5th, 2010, 08:11 PM
I think so too. :sad:

I think a bad gf for Tom would be a girl who plays mind games with him.

IBNI
February 5th, 2010, 08:53 PM
...this is such a sad turn of conversation. :(

Ripitgirl19
February 5th, 2010, 08:59 PM
*Random* When you said Mind games, it reminded me of brain teasers, and I love those!
I think that Amdee hit that spot on, I assumed that was what she meant, but I wasn't sure.

I don't know if you have discussed this yet, but do you think he would like it if his girlfriend was a vegetarian?

Amhazi
February 5th, 2010, 09:00 PM
I definitely see that with tom too

that emotionally...he's not as stable as he likes to lead others to believe

Amhazi
February 5th, 2010, 09:01 PM
*Random* When you said Mind games, it reminded me of brain teasers, and I love those!
I think that Amdee hit that spot on, I assumed that was what she meant, but I wasn't sure.

I don't know if you have discussed this yet, but do you think he would like it if his girlfriend was a vegetarian?

tom is a vegetarian so I can't see any conflict there

dejavu711
February 5th, 2010, 09:09 PM
Yeah, this convo is making me sad :[ lol

IBNI
February 5th, 2010, 09:11 PM
I think she meant would he like it if she was a vegetarian as well. It would most certainly make dinner dates easier, knowing that they both had the same diet. I don't think that diet would be something that would keep him away from dating someone, though.

laurenn
February 5th, 2010, 09:18 PM
I don't know if you have discussed this yet, but do you think he would like it if his girlfriend was a vegetarian?


I think he would appreciate if she was because than she wouldn't be eating an animal, but i don't think it is on his top priorities.

Mikoto
February 5th, 2010, 09:28 PM
On the "We're twins and we're completely different" thing: Not true. I don't think it's true at all. I believe that they're way too much alike than they want us to know. We all know that Bill's getting some on the side, and Tom just wants to find that one girl.

It's actually Bill that's getting all the tail. And Tom is at home sewing small pillows that say "One true love". And that's why we haven't seen them shirtless this year yet, because Tom got a big tattoo that says "Mein Lieben" on his chest, and Bill got one that said "I'd tap that".

We all know this is true ^^;

TokioHotel421
February 5th, 2010, 09:43 PM
Ok, I was watching an interveiw and they asked all the guys what they like in a girl and Tom said "big eyes" but how he was moving his hands he was really wanting to say "big boobs"

Aww but Tom is adorable ;-)

KaitMazing94
February 5th, 2010, 10:29 PM
On the "We're twins and we're completely different" thing: Not true. I don't think it's true at all. I believe that they're way too much alike than they want us to know. We all know that Bill's getting some on the side, and Tom just wants to find that one girl.

It's actually Bill that's getting all the tail. And Tom is at home sewing small pillows that say "One true love". And that's why we haven't seen them shirtless this year yet, because Tom got a big tattoo that says "Mein Lieben" on his chest, and Bill got one that said "I'd tap that".

We all know this is true ^^;
Haha yes we'd all know that Bill would be the one who'd try to sleep with himself.

And lol at Tom sewing little heart pillows! Thats gold!

But really i don't know what to think about Tom. The only way we'll ever know what he is truly like when he is at home with his dogs, is...........To be one of his dogs...

HugsNotDrugs
February 6th, 2010, 12:56 AM
1 f*cks anything with a pulse and the other believes his true love is gonna fall outta the sky lol.
LOL!

I think the good twin, bad twin thing is exaggerated too. I am willing to bet both Tom and Bill are probably perverted guys who get laid. Bill's love talk I always thought was created for the fans...genius marketing and publicity tool...have one twin be the bad boy, girls love bad boys and have the other be the lovey dovey one, drives girls wild. I'm not really sure who they are bc I don't know them, but I just don't believe I see of them when they are on TV all the time, they do have a public image after all.

BUT I do agree with Tom being more sensitive than Bill in his own way. You can tell by some interviews, how when he is talking and Bill cuts him off he gets a frustrated look on his face for a second but gets quiet and let's Bill talk..while when Tom interrupts Bill, Bill grabs for the mic back and gets p'ed off you can tell, lol. Also, whenever they ask Tom a serious question and he is about to answer and you can tell he put thought into it, Bill always has to interrupt him, which causes Tom not to say what he was going to say in the first place but he usually ends up blabbing macho crap as a cover I think. And when you see them argue, Tom is more calm while Bill is more loud and stubborn. I do think it would be easier to break Tom than Bill, bc Bill seems fiesty and flamboyant when he gets mad and seems more likely to pout and hold a grudge.

I kind of think Tom holds his stuff inside maybe and then it all explodes at once..like with Pierrene. I don't excuse his behavior at all for that, that was wrong no matter who was at fault, but that could have been an example of him finally losing it and letting all of his emotions out. Which could be a serious problem down the road in all aspects of his life if he doesn't learn to deal with that.

Amdee
February 6th, 2010, 03:56 AM
LOL!

BUT I do agree with Tom being more sensitive than Bill in his own way. You can tell by some interviews, how when he is talking and Bill cuts him off he gets a frustrated look on his face for a second but gets quiet and let's Bill talk..while when Tom interrupts Bill, Bill grabs for the mic back and gets p'ed off you can tell, lol. Also, whenever they ask Tom a serious question and he is about to answer and you can tell he put thought into it, Bill always has to interrupt him, which causes Tom not to say what he was going to say in the first place but he usually ends up blabbing macho crap as a cover I think. And when you see them argue, Tom is more calm while Bill is more loud and stubborn. I do think it would be easier to break Tom than Bill, bc Bill seems fiesty and flamboyant when he gets mad and seems more likely to pout and hold a grudge.

I kind of think Tom holds his stuff inside maybe and then it all explodes at once..like with Pierrene. I don't excuse his behavior at all for that, that was wrong no matter who was at fault, but that could have been an example of him finally losing it and letting all of his emotions out. Which could be a serious problem down the road in all aspects of his life if he doesn't learn to deal with that.

I SO agree with you here!

I've always wondered how much is he taking from people before he snaps. With Bill he is used to take quite a lot (as we've seen in all those occasions you said) and I think that these roles keep the balance between them in harmony. It would be interesting to know have theior roles separated alwauys like this. For what I've understood, Tom has always been that big brother already from their younger age. Maybe he has taken it in a way that he needs to protect Bill to the very end, be "the mature one and not argue" and let Bill burst out, feel the responsibility of Bill etc. It's like he has been teached to be "a big boy" and how big boys are not supposed to fight back with their younger brothers, but act like "adults"? Also we know that he had had discipline issues back in the days at school, so how has that been handled? I've been working with teens, who have had problems at school just because it has been the only place to burst out all those drabbed emotions inside. This is all just very, very wild guiessing and probably not true at all, but I think this is very interssting subject to talk about.

It can truly become a problem if he doresn't learn how to bring out his emotions on constructive way. He has probably lived 20 years giving up lots of things for his brother, who surely knows how to be needy in many different ways. It's not how much he can take, because apparently he can take A LOT, but about when it's going to boil over. I don't know, just my two cents.

(And I just realised how much of a Dr.Phil-cheap psychology this looks like :laugh:)

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 11:21 AM
On the "We're twins and we're completely different" thing: Not true. I don't think it's true at all. I believe that they're way too much alike than they want us to know. We all know that Bill's getting some on the side, and Tom just wants to find that one girl.

It's actually Bill that's getting all the tail. And Tom is at home sewing small pillows that say "One true love". And that's why we haven't seen them shirtless this year yet, because Tom got a big tattoo that says "Mein Lieben" on his chest, and Bill got one that said "I'd tap that".

We all know this is true ^^;
http://i50.tinypic.com/2193pci.jpg TA-DA!!!

I also agree with the 2 posts above

Pixle3000
February 6th, 2010, 11:27 AM
http://i50.tinypic.com/2193pci.jpg

Tom's looking good (as always) and Bill...Really has been working out I see! Lol!....

But I'd love to be his trainer---looking a little uneven...I can fix that! Lol!


But they both look good and I hope they're having a good time...

Amhazi
February 6th, 2010, 01:04 PM
http://i50.tinypic.com/2193pci.jpg TA-DA!!!

I also agree with the 2 posts above


ooo yum! look at that muscle definition. tom looks incredible here.

unfortunately bill "pales" a bit in comparison

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 03:33 PM
Tom the situation. ;)

deejaykaulitz
February 6th, 2010, 04:00 PM
HAHAHAAH OMG ROFL ily emu

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 04:03 PM
ILY2 DJ. lol.

deejaykaulitz
February 6th, 2010, 04:06 PM
omg lmao but tom could pull it off hes so much hotter lol i cant get over those pics

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 04:07 PM
omg lmao but tom could pull it off hes so much hotter lol i cant get over those pics

we had more pics the last time they were on vacation. :cry:

and they were in higher quality. D:

...

but Tom shirtless. <3 oh yes.

i wanna bake cookies on Tom the situation. :laugh:

deejaykaulitz
February 6th, 2010, 04:09 PM
someone else said that lmao then eat them off him...ok i gotta stop its turning into r rated thoughts ok breath bring back down 2 pg 13 lmao

Metro-Retro!
February 6th, 2010, 04:10 PM
Tom the situation. ;)
LMFAO...

:laugh:

Yeah they look good. I love Bill's hair... :cffgrin:

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 04:10 PM
someone else said that lmao then eat them off him...ok i gotta stop its turning into r rated thoughts ok breath bring back down 2 pg 13 lmao

neeeiiin.!

they are the cookies for the dark side. :grin:

lmao.

...

we'll eat them in the explicit forum. :twisted:

deejaykaulitz
February 6th, 2010, 04:12 PM
oo yummy explicit cookies r my favorite haha ill meet u there

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 04:13 PM
oo yummy explicit cookies r my favorite haha ill meet u there

mmkay. :grin:

Ms.DangerousThing
February 6th, 2010, 05:01 PM
:laugh: having fun on the dark side. :laugh: still on the billa side mahabab :P

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 05:41 PM
@Emu & Deejay - lol weneva u two get together, things always turn explicit. hmmm and wat is this explicit forum u speak of? I wanna join!!!
Oh and Emu, you totally stole my signiture idea!!! I even started making it and everything.. ah well, urz is better newayz.

@Ms. DangerousThing - Are you sure about that, u do know we have cookies too right? ;)

love, alex.
February 6th, 2010, 05:44 PM
Bill doesn't have the V anymore! *part of soul dies*

Bill likes killing me. some of my soul died when he said 'vampire' instead of 'wampire', and a little more just died cause he's too skinny for the V anymore! D:

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 05:49 PM
So guys,
Do you think if Tom got a 'one night stand' pregnant he would:
A) Deny her and her baby,
B) Be slightly mature and support her... but only financially,
C) Rise up to the challenge and become a devoted father no matter wat anyone thinks or says?

Im goin for A on this one, and then when the DNA proves it is his, he will sulkily go into B mode.

The only way I see C happening is if he was really into the girl in the 1st place.

dejavu711
February 6th, 2010, 05:50 PM
A.
They'd be on Maury in all she would be talking like "HE DA BABY DADDY!" while Tom is like "THAT AINT MY KID, YO! I SWEAR! DIS HO BEEN WIT SUm1 ELSE!" xD

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 05:53 PM
@Emu & Deejay - lol weneva u two get together, things always turn explicit. hmmm and wat is this explicit forum u speak of? I wanna join!!!
Oh and Emu, you totally stole my signiture idea!!! I even started making it and everything.. ah well, urz is better newayz.

@Ms. DangerousThing - Are you sure about that, u do know we have cookies too right? ;)

no. not just us. lol. things turn explicit when it's "DJ + mich + Tom". :laugh:

zis : http://th-usexplicit.proboards.com/index.cgi
:cool:

sorry for stealing your idea. ^_^ i like yours though. it's rly good. :'D i love how you kept it simple yet still so creative. ;D

love, alex.
February 6th, 2010, 05:59 PM
yeah I think B. at the most he could become friends with her, but if he's really a jerk about being a father there'll be no contact :laugh:

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 06:09 PM
A.
They'd be on Maury in all she would be talking like "HE DA BABY DADDY!" while Tom is like "THAT AINT MY KID, YO! I SWEAR! DIS HO BEEN WIT SUm1 ELSE!" xD

She cud be holdin identical twins and he will still deny ever seeing her b4 lol




sorry for stealing your idea. ^_^ i like yours though. it's rly good. :'D i love how you kept it simple yet still so creative. ;D

Thx for the link.
Its simple coz im so sh*t at using photoshop programmes LMAO

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 06:14 PM
Thx for the link.
Its simple coz im so sh*t at using photoshop programmes LMAO

you're appearantly better than me. xD

Amdee
February 6th, 2010, 06:21 PM
And I don't like either of you, because I can't use that picture anymore.... I'm too slow and I don't want to copy anyone :laugh:

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 06:40 PM
http://i47.tinypic.com/2f0gndw.jpg

I got as far as that, then i couldnt be bothered anymore coz GIMP was really p*ssing me off. So i planned to finish it tomorrow, get rid of white stuff, change the font, enhance the picture quality, blah blah blah and all that... then i saw Emu's. LOL. Lets just say, the picture will now reside in the recycle bin till further notice lol.

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 06:41 PM
http://i47.tinypic.com/2f0gndw.jpg

I got as fasr as that, then i couldnt be bothered anymore coz GIMP was really p*ssing me off. So i planned to finish it tomorrow, get rid of white stuff, change the font, enhance the picture quality, blah blah blah and all that... then i saw Emu's. LOL. Lets just say, the picture will now reside in the recycle bin till furthe notice lol.

this looks nais. ;-)

but it's kinda too big.

i like the text though. ;D

i used to use gimp, too. but then i got photoshop CS3. lol. i need to admit it, it's WAY better than gimp. :'D

Sim_1
February 6th, 2010, 06:50 PM
I think i mite have to swap to photoshop CS3 then, if i want mine to look as good as urs :)

Amdee don't worry about it, im slow too lol. By the tym i get round to posting my fanfic, sum1 will have alredi done the idea and all the excitement will be over.

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 06:52 PM
yeah. CS3 is awesome. there's CS4 now but i never tried that.

Amdee
February 6th, 2010, 07:13 PM
I think i mite have to swap to photoshop CS3 then, if i want mine to look as good as urs :)

Amdee don't worry about it, im slow too lol. By the tym i get round to posting my fanfic, sum1 will have alredi done the idea and all the excitement will be over.


That happens always with my fan fics too.

And I fooled you. I decided to use THE picture too even if I promised not to. It's just way too delicious not to use :laugh:

Amhazi
February 6th, 2010, 07:36 PM
I think Tom would fall into category A and then if proven to be his....move into category C

I think Tom has a good heart and is a decent enough person to own up to something as serious as that

He cannot deny the existence of his own child and sleep comfortably at night...or maybe I'm giving him more credit than deserved

Amhazi
February 6th, 2010, 07:38 PM
Tom the situation. ;)

:laugh::laugh: yes!

emeXu
February 6th, 2010, 07:43 PM
:laugh::laugh: yes!

did you notice that there were really six of 'em in the vacation pics before these ? lol.

awwwe. he's fat now. :laugh:

Amhazi
February 7th, 2010, 01:50 AM
did you notice that there were really six of 'em in the vacation pics before these ? lol.

awwwe. he's fat now. :laugh:

haha no. I guess I need to work on being more observant d**n!

but jeez he's suuuch a tub o' lard now lol

ray_ray2384
February 7th, 2010, 01:59 AM
Tom loves kids. I don't think he'd abandon a child he created.

HugsNotDrugs
February 7th, 2010, 03:00 AM
Haha, I'm surprised Tom doesn't have a bunch of girls claiming he knocked them up or that he doesn't already have a kid out there somewhere. I think A, then B.

To respond to the person who went Dr. Phil (haha i love it!): I think everyone is pretty much pushed into a role in their lives that they play out. When the twins were small it was probably discovered of the two that Bill was the weak one, the more feminine and sensitive one, while Tom was more manly and harsh. Tom probably took on this role and in school I can see him defending Bill from bullies and all that. And in that interview where he talks about how Bill wanted to become a pro scooter rider or something, what he said he seemed to encourage it in Bill and he didn't crush his dream, so he has probably always been in the role of the protective older brother while Bill has probably gotten away with murder for being more flamboyant, lol.

Yeah, his behavior in school kind of rang a bell with me too. It's been my experience so far (counseling major) and I've worked with troubled kids as well, but the behavioral problem kids usually have something going on at home that is effecting them. Could be the divorce that caused Tom's (and I think Bill had some too? I might be wrong) behavior problems. Personally, and I don't mean to offend anyone, but I've always thought their comments about how their mother raised them seemed a little bit...off. It strikes me as odd that a mother would let her pre-teen children run around at all hours of the night and come home drunk and make homework optional, and let them wear baggy jeans and shirts to a formal ceremony, and dye their hair at age 9..and also let her young kids travel with strangers so young and pretty much quit school. Now I'm not saying she was a bad mother, she sounds pretty cool, but kids NEED boundaries and it seems like maybe she gave them too many freedoms and responsibilities at a young age. I think kids crave guidance and if they aren't getting the guidance they need, they act out in different ways to get it. Kids who act out with violence and disturbances in school I have usually found when getting to know them further, there are issues at play in their family structures. Also, the twins seem to have some issues with their biological father which is more than likely a factor as well.

^^ Regarding that photo, Tom and Bill are so different in size! lol..also, didn't Bill used to have the fakey orange tan and Tom was white, now they are reversed! Bill is so tiny...it makes me want to send him a care package of food or something. and gag at the cigarettes.

Ms.DangerousThing
February 7th, 2010, 10:49 AM
@Emu & Deejay - lol weneva u two get together, things always turn explicit. hmmm and wat is this explicit forum u speak of? I wanna join!!!
Oh and Emu, you totally stole my signiture idea!!! I even started making it and everything.. ah well, urz is better newayz.

@Ms. DangerousThing - Are you sure about that, u do know we have cookies too right? ;)
ha, :laugh: I am sure of it. Yes i am **** sure about that. I rather have cake and Bill god **** it!

musicinmysoul
February 7th, 2010, 02:04 PM
I am always late in these threads, but I will say something anyway...

I saw something about when they have kids, and if they have twins etc. I think it will be more likely for their kids or grandkids to have twins.

There was also something about Tom being more sensitive and hiding... I think they both hide. Bill was bullied for the way he wanted to look. I don´t know if Tom was bullied for defending Bill, but when you are bullied, you learn to hide. I was bullied when I was younger. In a way it made me stronger, but I have walls, and I kind of hide things about me. Being in their situation, I think it´s very easy to hide some parts about yourself, of who you really are, to protect yourself and not get hurt as easily.

Someone said something about that the ones that acts confident are usually the ones that are sensitive, or something like that, I don´t remember exactly. I can see Tom being more sensitive, and shy, than he appears to be. It´s about hiding again.
And being the older brother, defending Bill when he needed it, maybe he took on the role of being the protective brother, and since he did that, he has to be the stronger one, he can`t show us the sensitive side, casue that would make him weak, or something.

I just watched a video of Tom playing the piano. There was something so sweet about it, like he put the macho man aside for a moment.

I don´t remember everything I was going to say, and I don´t know if it made much sense...

Zoë[kaulitz]?
February 10th, 2010, 09:56 PM
This thread is SO dead!..>_>

soo.. what about a girl that likes to wear fake hair? (weave, extensions, ponytails, etc)

KaitMazing94
February 10th, 2010, 11:27 PM
?;645254']This thread is SO dead!..>_>

soo.. what about a girl that likes to wear fake hair? (weave, extensions, ponytails, etc)
He probably wouldn't care. Jessica Alba wears extentions sometimes LOL.

But yeah i don't think he would mind.

ray_ray2384
February 11th, 2010, 02:00 AM
Beauty is beauty. I don't think Tom would care at all. Just as long as his girl looks good and takes care of herself.

Amdee
February 11th, 2010, 02:58 AM
?;645254']This thread is SO dead!..>_>

soo.. what about a girl that likes to wear fake hair? (weave, extensions, ponytails, etc)

Tom is wearing fake hair himself, so he shouldn't have anything to say on this one :laugh:

No, I don't think he'd mind.

Mikoto
February 11th, 2010, 03:21 AM
http://i50.tinypic.com/2193pci.jpg TA-DA!!!

I also agree with the 2 posts above
Well, when I posted that I hadn't seen the pictures :laugh:
But I'm liking the Maldives photos.

So... hmm... let's think of a question... *strokes beard*... Do you think Tom would mind if his woman was covered in tattoos or had piercings... (to be accurate, looks like this...)

http://z.about.com/d/movies/1/0/J/c/P/guyschoice27.jpg

(Ooh, and a little bit off topic but I wanted to post anywho, this is her when they photoshoped her tattoos off)

http://tengossip.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/kat-von-d-sephora2a.jpg

...She looks really different... (btw, it's Kat Von D).

Anywho, do you think Tom would be able to dig someone with body art?

ray_ray2384
February 11th, 2010, 03:26 AM
I don't see Tom dating a girl like Kat Von D. Since Tom doesn't appreciate tattoos and multiple piercings himself. Does he find women like Kat Von D attractive? Hmmm.....I don't think so. Tom seems to be into women who are more traditionally/classically beautiful.

Metro-Retro!
February 11th, 2010, 03:26 AM
I think he would. He would want to discover all of the amazing tats... xD

Actually, to be honest, didn't he say he doesn't really like tats?

Sim_1
February 11th, 2010, 05:36 PM
I could see Tom having a fling with Rihanna (u know, the type that they go on to deny)
I can imagine when Tom see's this video he will be like O.o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel)

Yell[[Yeah]]Krissie!
February 11th, 2010, 07:31 PM
I could see Tom having a fling with Rihanna (u know, the type that they go on to deny)
I can imagine when Tom see's this video he will be like O.o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel)
Bwahahahaha. >:]

Und I personally adore Kat Von D, but... I dunno, Tom's always said he doesn't want to ink his own body, so something tells me that he might not like a girl cover in tat's. But he wouldn't mind small ones. ;]

aky
February 11th, 2010, 07:38 PM
yes what Tom want a in girl that give him good smiles also the girl must be Spontaneous

wake.up.call.004
February 11th, 2010, 09:01 PM
I could see Tom having a fling with Rihanna (u know, the type that they go on to deny)
I can imagine when Tom see's this video he will be like O.o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel)


LOVE that song.

First time I heard it off the album, I thought of Tom.
xD

Metro-Retro!
February 12th, 2010, 12:27 AM
I could see Tom having a fling with Rihanna (u know, the type that they go on to deny)
I can imagine when Tom see's this video he will be like O.o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel)
How come I didn't hear this before?! D:


*love it*

Zoë[kaulitz]?
February 12th, 2010, 12:48 AM
Do you think Tom want his mom to meet the girl right away? Or not long after they have been together?

Metro-Retro!
February 12th, 2010, 01:49 AM
When he meets the girl he thinks is right for him, of course he would want her to meet his family. I think not too right away, but maybe when he feels comfortable enough.

TH Rox My Sox
February 12th, 2010, 06:19 PM
I could see Tom having a fling with Rihanna (u know, the type that they go on to deny)
I can imagine when Tom see's this video he will be like O.o
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e82VE8UtW8A&feature=channel)

I love that song. And some one else must have been thinking the same thing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nTAjLC2rXQ&NR=1

ray_ray2384
February 13th, 2010, 06:41 AM
I love that song. And some one else must have been thinking the same thing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0nTAjLC2rXQ&NR=1

me too!!! *check my sig* :lol: I wonder if Tom would be annoyed if his girl was always late getting ready for dates and such.

Zoë[kaulitz]?
February 13th, 2010, 11:02 AM
I think if she was constantly late he would be annoyed, like he would maybe think their dates weren't that important to her. If she made like. one of those fashionably late scenes where all eyes are on her, he wouldn't be that mad.

Sim_1
February 13th, 2010, 01:47 PM
?;646852'] I think if she was constantly late he would be annoyed, like he would maybe think their dates weren't that important to her. If she made like. one of those fashionably late scenes where all eyes are on her, he wouldn't be that mad.

Aww that put a really pretty picture in my mind

Metro-Retro!
February 13th, 2010, 01:50 PM
If she was like, forgetful, that might make him mad though... Like not a little forgetful, but like totally forgetful about lots of things...

Sim_1
February 13th, 2010, 02:11 PM
In relation to WTLIAG:

A. Do you think you posess many of these qualities? (don't say yes jus coz u think he's hot lol)

B) If given the chance, would u actually go out with him?

_______

A - Yes. Same music interest, same personal style (although I do hav my 'dress girly' moments. I joke about alot but still keep things serious when needed and of course....
http://i48.tinypic.com/2ewibdg.jpg
BIG BOOBS!! - F's the last tym I checked :laugh:

B - Nope, a guy like him seems to get bored easily and it could be really hard to mantain his interest. It would only end in tears.. =/

________

So wat about you guys?

Metro-Retro!
February 13th, 2010, 02:16 PM
Well you never know. He might change his mind when the time comes that he gets a date. He hasn't really been in a real relationship for some time.

ray_ray2384
February 13th, 2010, 02:19 PM
In relation to WTLIAG:

A. Do you think you posess many of these qualities? (don't say yes jus coz u think he's hot lol)

B) If given the chance, would u actually go out with him?

_______

A - Yes. Same music interest, same personal style (although I do hav my 'dress girly' moments. I joke about alot but still keep things serious when needed and of course....
http://i48.tinypic.com/2ewibdg.jpg
BIG BOOBS!! - F's the last tym I checked :laugh:

B - Nope, a guy like him seems to get bored easily and it could be really hard to mantain his interest. It would only end in tears.. =/

________

So wat about you guys?


to be brutally honest with myself, personality-wise I think we'd get along! In terms of physical, eh.....i have what he likes! ;) But, I don't think he likes the big girls! for the next question, I'd say.....yes! I mean, why not? Tom seems like a really cool guy.

I do agree with you that Tom would get bored easily. It's probably why he wants a fun, spontaneous girl. He needs to be entertained. It may be easy to get his attention. But, it'll be hard to keep it. At the same time, I think a a girl who knows how to have fun, loves to have fun, is carefree and open would be able to keep Tom's interest.